55 points

People keep making these memes, yet I keep seeing plenty of vitriol in the comments

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Aight bro, you wanted it that way!

COME HERE FOR A HUG!

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6 points

I think it depends on the instance, I find lots of vitriol comments on lemmy.world.

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9 points

I noticed OP is a beehaw user, so they’re probably shielded from a lot of the active vitriol we see here.

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2 points

Correct.

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3 points

Just don’t ask what lemmy app is the best. Trust me.

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Literally had someone tell me, unless the lemmy police were actively trying to take my app away, I have no right to complain about the elitism, lol.

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37 points

Don’t tell em about the Sync discussions

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Yeah, there’s plenty of other examples of toxicity, but the Sync discussions are the easiest to point to example.

Ultimately, Lemmy has most of the same issues with condescension, toxicity, and pointless argument as reddit did

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Or the announcement of lemmy.world admins preemptively defederating from Hexbear.

Or the announcement of lemmy.world admins NOT preemptively defederating from Threads.

Or when there’s politics involved.

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Idk man… I’ve seen some truly passive aggressive comments sometimes. To the point where one could say ‘I don’t like your tone buddy’. Let’s not glorify and patronize communities one over the other.

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Oh, you’ve seen truly passive aggressive comments have you?!? Name every one.

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True. It’s still a good aspiration. Maybe we can get there.

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People on lemmy are taking the blue pill and thinking that the fediverse is wholesome, the fediverse is many things (mostly positive) but saying that we’ve got no assholes is a lie (OP did say that “the whole fediverse is wholesome ❤”)

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I just blocked Lemmygrad and hexbear and haven’t had any issues at all with jerks since

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4 points

Those two and exploding heads are trash.

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That was definitely a good start, based on my own experience. Just keep an eye out for the popular degenerates from there and be ready to block them as well. Blocking their community doesn’t keep them out of the comment sections else where. Especially politics.

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Blocking their community doesn’t keep them out of the comment sections else where.

Connect has an option to block comments from blocked instances.

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15 points

I actually saw someone change their mind in a heated thread. It was amazing.

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12 points

What open mindedness does to a mf

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It used to happen on Reddit.

Then the Trumpening…

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Yeah, on Reddit, especially in bigger communities, if you admitted you were wrong about something (or not at least technically correct in some way), you’d get downvoted and had asshats commenting how dumb you are, so they’d get upvoted for that.

Here, there’s less people to dunk on you, and I imagine, also just fewer kids, who need the validation from dunking and aren’t yet as self-reflected…

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