Is there a toy that’s just amazing? Is there a scenario that revs you up? Is there a video or a story you find yourself going back to? Is it a specific quality in a partner? Whatever it is, missionary with the lights off, being tied up, immobile, and used, anything.
So AskLemmyNSFW, if you wanna cum hard, what works for you?
Mentally? Subbing, by a mile. Fighting back unsuccessfully (fun because I’m stronger than I look but not as strong as any guy my size, so they get surprised at first but I can push with no chance of winning) is fun too but I’m not bratty otherwise. Being out of control in general, not tied up or passive though.
Physically it’s changed over time. The last baby I had moved things around and I was suddenly able to get off from penetration and I enjoy that so, so much, it’s convenient and still kinda feels like a party trick. Handheld shower thing or fingers (outside not inside) if solo, though.
Mutual trust
I found a game on itch.io called Town of Magic that has just been doing it for me lately. I don’t know why this one gets my engine revving, when I’ve played similar games and been kind of “meh” on them, but for whatever reason I’ve been spending too much time playing and cumming with this game.
Sane here, but with a game called “poke abby” found in a dark ally somewhere. Itch.IO gave me no results for that title, your gonna have to link it.
Communication. When she tells me what makes her feel good in that moment, guides me, helps me give her more pleasure. Some positions are sometimes too sensitive for her and I love it, when she tells me immediately, so we can choose other position, that we both are able to enjoy.
And the partnership we have, it always gets me off mentally and emotionally what a perfect woman I have by my side. Life with her is a treasure.
Chastity cage! I like getting into chastity, fantasizing most of the time about being the hostage of a woman. Other times, I watch videos while I’m in chastity.