‘Better than a real man’: young Chinese women turn to AI boyfriends::Twenty-five-year-old Chinese office worker Tufei says her boyfriend has everything she could ask for in a romantic partner: he’s kind, empathetic, and sometimes they talk for hours.

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TBF we haven’t set the bar particularly high.

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Speak for yourself, I’m an absolute treasure.

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121 points

old, buried underground and forgotten?

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Hey, that’s hysterical, I’m gonna use that on my boyfriend real soon

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From what I understand there is a shortage of women in China compared to men due to the one child policy and most parents wanting sons so that makes a bad problem even worse.

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Fair

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48 points

If men did this they would be labeled pathetic…

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10 points

We do and it is.

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26 points

Men do this and a company straight up profited from it until they tried to go back to be sponsor friendly and gimped their AI personas service

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4 points

Ashley Madison?

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I’m guessing Replika.

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You’re 100% correct lol. Men who do this are roundly mocked and called sad creepy incels.

That said, the culture and dating scene for women in China is pretty awful. My ex was Chinese and had some awful dating stories, now she avoids dating Chinese men. Easy for her to do as she left china, but not everybody can/wants to.

We need to learn to be a little less mean to anybody who uses these apps. They’re likely doing it because they see little alternative, yet still want affection. Calling them losers, be they male or female, achieves nothing other than hurting them.

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Only thing it does is makes mean people feel better about themselves by punching down.

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12 points

Aren’t we already with this? I never see anyone going “You go queen!” over someone’s virtual bf

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This is relatively novel, give it time…

I did see that response to “sologamy” articles - women marrying themselves.

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98 points

As a man all I can say is “fair enough”.

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28 points

Just end us already

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Line forms behind me.

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