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I don’t like waiting in my car, but I fucking hate packed restaurants/cafes where I have to scoot my chair in extra tight so people don’t keep having to rub their junk on me every time they squeeze behind me.

I choose option 3: make my coffee/tea at home because I’m poor asf.

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so people don’t keep having to rub their junk on me

I agree with GiantFloppyCock.

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Is there a sublemmy for rimjob Steve yet?

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I wouldn’t have noticed without this comment. Love it.

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I’m on option 3 because no coffee/tea is worth the wasted time and resources of leaving my house early (even if I had to commute) to wait in line for it. This is just terminally stupid to me and I am unable to understand why anyone does it as part of their daily routine.

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yeah I just make some black coffée when I get to work, maybe add a sugar packet if I feel zesty

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Well, if you weren’t poor, you could just go and sit in half empty cafe where trey charge €10+ per cup.

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I hate getting bumped, but for me it’s the noise. Can’t stand a crowded space with many conversations.

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What a ridiculous comment. Maybe they already have been. Maybe they can’t afford it. Maybe they don’t even have autism. A diagnosis isn’t some magic cure for sensitivity to noisy crowds anyway, so it’s not a helpful suggestion even if all your assumptions were true.

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so people don’t keep having to rub their junk on me

Same, bro. Now where is this coffee place, so I know where not to go? 📜✍🥸

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High five for practical frugality. I’m with you there.

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I don’t think the problem with cars is that they aren’t comfortable. Unfortunately they are too comfortable. You get to sit in an air conditioned box with leather seats, no external noise while listening to an audiobook. Then your coffee just shows up.

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lol I always think that when cars don’t want to stop for me walking. Like bro chill you’re sitting in a literal recliner rn

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The car ofc 😂. Air conditioned, my own music, private space, no waiting for a table, no listening to other conversations. But this is a stupid comparison altogether. I wouldn’t go to the drive thru for a social coffee and I wouldn’t go to the cafe for a quick coffee.

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Most of the people in this thread have evidently never been to a café. They are describing it like some hellish experience, which to be fair in America it probably is

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I think most of the people here probably haven’t. I myself have only been once.

The issue with this comparison is the cultural differences. Like in America that bottom image would be basically impossible to get in and out of on the way to work. Whereas Starbs or Dunkin is like a 5 minute pit stop tops

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Again, wrong. In Italy or France it’s perfectly normal to pop into a cafe for a quick coffee on the way to work.

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This, 35 Celsius grades and beyond are no joke.

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The people lining up, instead of parking and taking 5 mins to go inside, are terminally stupid. I encountered this the other day, and I was out the door with my coffee before the line had even moved.

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Wasn’t that a covid thing?
With that being said, there is no way i would’ve waited there when i saw 3 or more cars.

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Are you by any chance telling them to walk on their legs?

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It’s a catch-22 though. Like, if I get out of my car for 5 minutes with it off then it just heats up to 1000 degrees. I get that the idea of quickly going in and walking out is nice, and I would honestly prefer to not have it at all (yay for just making coffee at home). However for us in incredibly hot climates it isn’t something I ever try to do. It’s 107 out today, 5 minutes with my car off turns it into like 135 on the inside. Of course all of this just adds more to emissions. Which is all of the problem….

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Electric cars, if you’re going to have a car, do help with this. You just leave the air conditioning on.

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My car I bought recently has remote start. So I can turn it (and the AC) on right before I’m about to leave. A minute is enough for it to start blasting plenty of cold air.

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Many coffee and fast food restaurants around where I live closed down internal seating around covid and still haven’t opened the backup now due to staffing issues. Terminally stupid my ass.

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Equally terminally stupid your ass, because you can make coffee at home during highly infectious outbreaks.

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This was during Covid social distancing, probably right when Starbucks was allowed to open back up.

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Yes because sitting in my car jamming to my music is soooooo stupid.

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No, but twenty of you sitting in your idling cars is unbelievably stupid

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Start/stop technology.

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It also could be that they are drive-through only. I live in a small town in the midwestern U.S. and a lot of fast-food places around here closed their lobbies during the pandemic and just never reopened them after, usually citing worker shortages.

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so i guess no fast food for the poor. as a teen, i got rejected from trying to order from the drive thru because i didn’t have a car.

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With the way the prices have risen, it’s nearly “no fast food for the poor” already anyway…

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