I use the apps my friends use but it gets tiring to keep up with so many.

134 points

Yeah, there was a nice period when Pidgin could easily handle all the chats. Then providers siloed their apps 🫤

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That was the time when all the apps were standard XMPP. It didn’t have proper encryption back then. WhatsApp is still XMPP nowadays, but excluding federation and non-standard implementation on Meta servers and so on

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19 points

It didn’t have proper encryption back then.

OTR predates all the commercial platforms adopting XMPP, so that’s not exactly true.

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7 points

Was OTR a protocol where the server had zero knowledge of the unencrypted content? Or was it basically like SSL?

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Sure, but now you show me all the clients that supported OTR back then 😜 - or now, for that matter. Besides, OTR doesn’t work in multi user chats. OMEMO does, and support for it is still not exactly widespread…

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8 points

Fun fact, iMessage is also XMPP based!

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7 points

My brother in Christ do you know what fun means

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3 points

So is WhatsApp, Zoom, Jitsi

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10 points

You can bridge to all of the apps in the image from Matrix

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2 points

Or Slidge

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I actually tried pidgin maybe 6 months ago just for kicks if it could handle whatsapp, signal and telegram, and whaddaya know, it could. It was ugly as hell, but it could be done.

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For whatsapp, my experience with Pidgin was terrible. Stickers had to be downloaded as photos, group chats would only show up once someone sent a message, contacts would only show as the full international phone number, all existing chats were horizontal tabs, like a browser.

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Yup indeed, it wasn’t a pleasant experience. Self-hosting Matrix with all its bridges is kinda nice tho (although a bit lacking).

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93 points

Just never interact with anyone. Christ, it’s not that hard people! (This comment doesn’t count.)

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22 points

We’re all bots. You still haven’t interacted with a person.

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9 points

Everyone on lemmy is a bot except for you.

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10 points

Speak for yourself. I’m not a bot, I’m a cat walking across an unmonitored keyboard.

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85 points

i really fucking hate discord.

Why does EVERYTHING have to be proprietary. Fucking capitalism.

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43 points

Its pretty amazing for voice communication in gaming.

As a messenging app? Meh

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4 points

i get much better call quality in telegram

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dude discord has been one of the worst experiences for voip in gaming IME. I started using mumble SOLELY because discord was actually just disappointing. Though tbf maybe if i paid out the ass for nitro it’s better? I ain’t paying for that though.

Though yeah, for messaging, it’s dogshit, It’s a mess.

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I don’t get why people like it either. It’s a mess of chats.

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9 points

Gamers using it for gaming. In game Voice communication is trash

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4 points

And that’s fine, but why do gamers use it over any other VoIP option? And why the infinity chat channels over infinity servers?

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Because it’s the standard for gaming. I use it and would drop it in a heartbeat if it wasn’t standard for every mmo out there.

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I really wanted to keep faith in it after the ui overhaul recently - VoIP performance was SO much better on Xbox, latency specifically. But good GOD the mobile app is just a pile of garbage nowdays. I have so many friends stuck on that platform, I still end up sharing links there to Lemmy memes and like 60% of the time when I share to the app it permenantly sticks on the splash screen??? 🙄 notifications are fucked these days too, myself & my friend group regularly miss messages entirely, even with direct @ mentions?!

Worse, I dropped a crap review and complained that function has dropped horribly since the update and the devs INSTANTLY replied like “Have you tried pretending you’re a beta tester for us? Do you mind doing a buncha troubleshooting you definitely haven’t already done?” (They wanted me to reinstall the app… Smh)

Anyway - fuck discord. I’m planning to shift to Revolt, but if anyone has better suggestions I’d be happy to try some!

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im genuinely surprised discord even tries testing things on the two test branches they have. Yes, you heard me correctly, they have TWO separate testing branches. Bugs literally should not exist on the stable branch.

also when it comes to voip, i’ve enjoyed mumble, it’s pretty solid, minimal, configurable (highly integrated into games already, it’s old af though so maybe not new games) and works pretty well. Revolt seems alright, but it’s plagued with bugs, and weird issues, plus it’s self hosting is just, jank.

We could use a self hosted discord replacement tbh.

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Reject Discord, go back to Teamspeak

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Don’t like it - don’t use it. It’s a free (capitalist) country.

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11 points

that’s the cool thing, i dont, but you know who does? You, and you know how i would need to contact you? Through discord! Uh oh!

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-2 points

I don’t use discord

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62 points

Friends don’t make friends install chat apps (besides Signal)

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Not sure why you were downvoted. I’ve successfully made most of my friends, and my mom for that matter, talk to me on Signal.

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The comment implies Signal is peak chat when it’s flawed & other than maybe onboarding, isn’t superior to alternatives—with the phone number being a pro for onboarding is a con for privacy. It still requires you have an Android or iOS primary device (fueling that duopoly). They don’t want you installing it from a safer space like F-Droid. They still by default send notification metadata to Google & Apple (websocket support exists but drains a fair amount of battery & they refuse to support UnifiedPush). They still ship/use Apple emoji on Android & Linux. It’s still a centralized system you can’t self-host. They still have that missing part of the source code (where I would assume the feds planted something). It still isn’t a good space large chats. And the Electron desktop apps are far too bloated.

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And the Electron desktop apps are far too bloated.

No argument. Electron is categorically silly in its own right, lol.

 

They don’t want you installing it from a safer space like F-Droid.

F-Droid is by no means safe; use Droidify.

 

They still by default send notification metadata to Google & Apple (websocket support exists but drains a fair amount of battery & they refuse to support UnifiedPush).

Easy: use the FOSS version of Molly instead of the default Signal app.

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Signal is the best, but no way I’m going to be able to get my wife, my friends, my parents and in-laws to use it.

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37 points

Have you considered emotional blackmail?

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5 points

No, I haven’t reached that point yet.

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1 point

Can’t even get your wife on it? Damn…

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55 points

I have 3/7 and I hate it. I wish signal never removed the ability to function as sms

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19 points

Even if it did, it didn’t support rcs

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44 points

That’s because Google is gatekeeping the android API for RCS

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Wait, I thought Google wanted Apple to start supporting RCS. So that everyone can talk to each other.

So Google is just…trying to strong arm apple to give up their proprietary protocol for their own?

That’s so fucked up.

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4/7 here. I’m fine with it. Though sms should be included.

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