I have wrinkles, I have grey hair, I have back problems, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, I can’t remember anything, the world seems confusing and complicated to me now and I wish things were simpler (which is why I like Lemmy). I definitely don’t get kids today or their music.
How am I so old?
You purposefully let yourself slip. I’m 41. I listen to new music, I understand kid’s clothing styles (I was not that different in the 90s), I’ve kept up with modern technology, I kept moving (due to my labor intensive job), and I’ve eaten well. That’s all on you bro. Old does not have to mean outdated.
Edit: reminds me of my Dad who pretty much stopped listening to any music produced after 1982 and has his garage radio permanently set to classic rock. I made a promise to myself a long time ago that I will never stagnate like that.
I’m same age as OP and love Skrillex. Pretty in the loop with tech. Use they/them when asked without complaint. Am out of shape though, need to work on that part. Still miss my Commodore VIC20 and IBM XT though.
Really look at that computer. The OP is in his fifties. Tell me how you are in 10 years. Hes also exaggerating although you might be recognizing forgetting things or losing track of what your doing at home (For some reason it does not really happen at work I think because of the intense focus and all sorts of time management tools we have. Im not checking a calendar constantly at home or devops software). Some of his stuff is not even problems. I listen to music and bands that are before my time and have done so since I was young. He probably should do something about his blood pressure and cholesterol though. I totally wish things were simpler but more because they are annoying than complicated. Many tech things have lost a lot of functionality in the modern age as they are dumbed down rather than gaining greater function. It galls me how much I still have to do with paper.
Im not checking a calendar constantly at home or devops software
I kind of am. It’s my hobby. I develop and produce embedded electronics, both the hardware AND software. There’s a PoE-powered relay controller board I made myself running all my smart home stuff right now. There isn’t a day that goes by that I’m not involved with tech somehow. It’s my bread and butter. So, bring on the next decade, I welcome it.
Really look at that computer. The OP is in his fifties.
Apple II and its variants were used in schools well into the 90s. It was still selling pretty well even then. There’s a great scene about it in the Fassbender Steve Jobs biopic.
Haha, I’m so old that box would contain a typewriter.
Anyway young people like to think they have some control over ageing, like they can be thirty forever. Sorry to say it’s not going to happen. There’s things you can do to stave it off, but it will catch up with you. When you’re young you don’t think about it, you take it for granted. When you get old and feel the loss you think about it a lot.
Age caught up with me noticeably at an age older than forty something, but I’m really feeling it now. Forties are young enough where a health regiment of some kind can improve sense of well being. If overweight just getting down to an ideal can help greatly. I’ve had to battle my weight most of my life and when I can maintain a good weight it makes a really big difference in how I feel.
As far as not getting modern culture, it goes ten feet over my head now. I wish I could live in the the 90’s forever.
I have back problems, high cholesterol, high blood pressure
As someone who waited way, way, way too long too lose weight, let me recommend that you review your situation with a doctor.
I’ve lost significant weight in my 50s and it’s completely turned my health around. Cholesterol, blood pressure, blood sugar, almost every indicator was dangerously of whack. I was on a boatload of medications, it was doing jack squat.
Now I get tested and everything is where it’s supposed to be. I’m down to small maintenance doses for blood pressure and triglycerides, and I’m off the diabetes medical entirely.
I don’t know if weight it a problem for you, but if it is: you can get it under control.
Dude, I remember when there was no electricity at homes, I shit you not.
