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As a neurodivergent living with another neurodivergent it’s very much a case of that “sometimes” and there’s very much a factor of it being “controlled chaos”. There are moments I need silence and others I’m grooving in the tempo.

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Fuck yes, controlled chaos exactly.

Like rocks bouncing crazily down a mountainside, but somehow precisely aimed at the same time.

And at the other end of that spectrum, Bach and other early music. Which is maximally-bamboozling minimalism; you stare at it like a hyponitized chicken wondering how he can wrangle infinitely deep pattern out of like three notes.

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23 points

Huh. Never thought of it like that before, but I wonder if that’s partially why my living room looks like this.

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12 points

I thought the image on your monitor was the picture you are currently taking and this was camera inception.

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7 points

Lol no, but it does look similar.

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9 points

I’m envious of that system :o if only those stupid neighbors wouldn’t be around

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Just turn the music up louder and eventually they’ll leave.

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8 points

Luckily my neighbors aren’t that close for it to be a huge issue unless I put my speakers outside.

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18 points

/me puts my headphones on

But yeah, I need something to distract me so I can focus. Which sounds stupid but is true

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I am a stenographer. I cover board meetings with lots of people speaking about moderately technical subjects. I do my best work when I can watch a hockey game while I listen to what people say. When the night wears on and fatigue starts to set in, having a distraction like that is a huge help.

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I just recently got a WFH job, and outside of meetings, 80% of my day is spent bobbing my head to music while working. I do have to pause sometimes when something isn’t clicking and I need to shift my focus and sometimes literally read out loud what I’m reading. Then the music comes back once I remember that I paused it.

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I very much feel that. Listen too music most of the time, or have a video running, then pause it when I need focus more. That’s honestly how I’m most effective.

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I realized zoom’s noise canceling or whatever is such that it doesn’t usually pick up on music playing in meetings. It’s usually doom (eg: spaceslug) or synth pop (eg: cold beat).

It really helps with long inefficient meetings.

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@BassTurd @mac This sounds like the dream to me.

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It’s only been one month, and it’s the best job I’ve ever had. The freedom is nice being WFH, but even when I go into the office, people are armed with nerf guns, and the kitchenette fridge is stocked with beers for Friday mini happy hour.

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14 points

Yup. Music is my main regulation mechanism. For emotions, for concentration, you name it.

And sometimes it’s sludge metal, sometimes it’s electro swing, sometimes it’s jazz Bach.

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… jazz Bach?? Please tell me there’s a playlist somewhere, I want to experience this

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