Our fantasies and preferences aren’t fixed or immovable, so I’m curious what’s the latest one you’ve discovered you’re into?

It can be mundane or taboo or even fantastical and totally impossible in real life.

I’m a bi gal but I’ve recognized that I’m mostly attracted to femininity. Recently I’ve discovered that i really like the aesthetics of boys in thigh highs and skirts and other feminine clothing. That one feels new and surprising to me.

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I’m straight ( so far) but lately I’ve been jerking off to huge cocks and sending pics of em to my gf and telling her I wanna watch her suck and stroke em.

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Ok, I’ve got a fur fetish for quite some time, and a few years ago someone I played with (while I was bound with furs and a mask) took a picture of me (with my permission)

It was really amazing when this picture of me circulated up on a fur fetish forum I’m on. It’s really helping overcoming my self doubts how I look.

So new kink - anonymous people looking at a horny picture of me.

(And fur coats, not furry, that’s a different kink I don’t share)

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Well change that. Just found out an old friend hot male friend of mine is moving back to town and I’m hoping he and my wife will go past all the flirting they do and actually fuck finally.

My role is going to be enabling that, not watching or participating, not being around for it, and then cleaning her up afterwards. Eating his cum and using his cum as lube.

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I recently got to do my first CNC scene with a partner with whom I have been able to build up a good amount of trust.

The feeling of power of forcing someone who “doesn’t want this” is incredible.

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OMG I am glad to hear this. I got to play this way with my lover of a few years back and it’s so hot but I always kind of thought he just did it because I liked it - for me someone saying no would be such a turnoff, but for me saying “please yes” is hot but “please no” is sometimes even hotter!

It is good to hear that someone can enjoy the other side of it.

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It is a surprisingly common kink, from both sides.

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My wife and I have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. I think “Candaulism” is the best description of what I enjoy - I love the idea of her being desired, but still submissive to me. So a couple of months ago we were fucking somewhere public late at night and we thought we had been caught for sure by a security guard. We zipped up and got away. But when we were fucking at home later my wife said she wished I’d made her stay, and moreover, that the security guard had indeed caught us. Great, good kinky stuff.

She’s a respectable person where we live so sometimes part of the play is “what if those people lnew you were a slut, if you got caught”. But then she admitted she would have offered to suck his cock while I fucked her to keep us out of trouble. And I swear now I can hardly think of anything else.

She’s never been with anyone else - we’re together two decades since we got together as teens - but the idea of her getting to be a bit slutty and crossing over from putting on a show to audience participation is exciting. Me “making” her be a slut works for both of us - I love pushing her limits and she loves being controlled - but who knows if an opportunity like that will ever come up again.

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