I need that time before my appointment to pace back and forth worrying that I might miss my appointment
I feel so seen right now.
That’s why I try my best to make the earliest possible appointments
8am appointment, but you still can’t make any plans all day in case it runs long.
Oh absolutely. Frankly I can’t imagine it being any other way.
Whenever possible, I schedule things as early as possible on the day. I’ll take that 8 AM dental appointment or whatever. And it’s not just unpleasant things either. I also prefer a cinema visit as early as possible for example.
I definitely feel like my day is ‘on pause’ whenever I’m doing a thing later in the day. It’s very annoying not to be able to enjoy the rest of your day because of it. So, early it is.
Glad I’m not the only one who prefers the early appointments for movies. I like going like 3 or 4 weeks after premier on a Sunday morning.
There’s more of us… but: we are a rare species.
We got a brand new nine screen cinema back in december 2022. They actually run movies in the morning. Not all of them, unfortunately, but you certainly have good options around noon.
I love movies, but people not so much. So I usually pick the quietest showings. Sometimes I’ll see a movie in a completely empty theater. Friday afternoon around 4-5 PM is good for that.
I’ve actually got an unlimited movie pass, so I can see everything when I want. Usually the day or week it comes out. I’m seeing the new Planet of the Apes in… three hours.
Can’t take the risk of getting in the middle of something, losing track of time, and being late to/missing the appointment.
This was a meme that made me start looking into having ADHD.
I always thought it was because I was an introvert.
I described it to a few folk, and they were like “I don’t think that’s being an introvert”.
More Google led to “waiting mode” which describes it perfectly.
Everything from a weekend being “the only commitment is work on Monday, so I better do nothing to make sure I make the most of it”. Through “dentist at 13.00, might as well have a lie in” and still being late.
I don’t think it necessarily indicates ADHD. I mean, obviously it will depend on the person and for some it might. But for me, having something scheduled to do later in the day will mean I can’t fully relax until it’s complete. If I get it out of the way in the morning, then I can relax.
It’s part of the reason when I was in school I could never really relax, even though I wasn’t necessarily doing things all the time. I have a job that I physically can’t take home so I can just chill at the end of the day.
