There are very few situations where the choises are black and white. In most cases we are talking about shades of gray. I think that this us vs them mentality on the internet is pretty dumb in most cases.

How did my comment about moderation devolved into american politics, I am not even american. I am european.

Sorry, it wasn’t my intention to make the question gendered.

I like your take on defederation, I always believe that having a moderate take on most issues is the correct approach.