I dont know why I would limit myself like that, youre right

i dont think thats necessarily true, i did sports growing up as a kid and was very uncoordinated despite playing competitive sports year round until i was about 16, which is basically when you age out of a lot of youth sports if you’re not good enough to carry on into competitive jr and adult leagues. So that being said my gains are also only for the swoletariat.

As someone who fits in but used to be an outcast, I can assure you, fitting in isn’t about having mainstream hobbies, but proactively talking to people.

I still find going up to people and talking to them to be kind of scary, so the method I used was to join a college association I was interested in.

As for your hobbies, there is nothing wrong with having obscure hobbies, in fact, it makes for a great conversation topic. And unless your hobby is really out there, you could probably find a group that enjoys your hobby.

Of course, this assumes you have access to such spaces, which is not true for everyone.

Liberals are genocidal colonialists and you are not.