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ā€œNo one cares about what car you driveā€ has such Boomer energy to it, and itā€™s completely false.

Our 2nd car (ie. the one we use if my wife or I need to commute individually - suburban sprawl means we live in a public transportation desert), is a beat-up 15yo Hyundai hatchback.

We both love it because itā€™s economical, surprisingly reliable, cheap as anything to maintain, and we donā€™t particularly care if it gets dinged at a parking lot.

But the looks we get from our peers when we drive to our respective offices (we usually WFH), holy crap! Constantly having to explain ourselves is tiresome, and our line managers have both made off-handed comments sarcastically asking if weā€™re not being paid enough. šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø

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You have a point, but you need to not care about some elseā€™s bullshit opinion. You donā€™t need to explain yourself. Save your dough and youā€™ll have money for whatever suits you down the road.

Paying cash for big items like cars isnā€™t always the best idea, but less debt never hurts.

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Thats really weird. Your coworkers are strange

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Yeah, instead of ā€œno one cares about what car you driveā€ it should be ā€œyou shouldnā€™t concern yourself with the opinion of anyone who cares about what car you driveā€.

15yo Hyundai hatchback

surprisingly reliable

Youā€™ve been lucky then. That I believe is in the era of Hyundai/Kia where theyā€™d chew up replacement engines like crazy. But I guess it didnā€™t affect all engines.

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The car was a hand-me-down from one of our grandparents, with ~100K miles on the odometer.

They owned it since new, and like most old peopleā€™s cars - it was religiously serviced. Keeping up with maintenance goes a long way towards keeping most cars on the road (unless theyā€™re BMWs, but thatā€™s a whole other story).

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Keeping up with maintenance goes a long way towards keeping most cars on the road (unless theyā€™re BMWs, but thatā€™s a whole other story).

Ironically, well maintained BMWs have significantly better durability than Hyundais of that era, just not reliability.

I see M57 engined BMWs doing 500k+ km all the time. ZF 6HP transmissions are pretty good too. Yet the BMW E60/E61 and similar era 3 and 7 series that had these engines and transmissions are considered very unreliable, because everything else around that super solid core breaks down every now and then. They last forever, theyā€™ll just leave you stranded crying when some plastic pipe in the god damn cooling system breaks again.

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My boss did joke about giving me a raise to get me a car and Iā€™m all for it.

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Given the community, you should probably finagle that raise and just put it towards friendlier commute alternatives if possible!

Boss: ā€œHey, I have you that raise - whereā€™s the car?ā€ You: ā€œOh, I put that towards an e-bike instead!ā€

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I can milk it for more going ā€œIā€™m saving for a Hummer, Iā€™m not settling for anything less of course. If I only had a couple hundred bucks more each monthā€¦ā€.

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Maybe itā€™s different in your social circle. I work with engineers and technicians and keeping an old car going is respected not derided.

I wouldnā€™t want to hang around with people that look down their noses at me because I drive a car with 100,000 miles on the clock.

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Itā€™s not so much our social circles; rather our respective companiesā€™ Department Heads and C-Suites. Appearances and office politics play a hand in perception, unfortunately.

While I can somewhat understand their viewpoints, as both my wife and I are paid well - neither of us have client-facing roles, and we have a nice enough family car for carting around the bub and in-laws.

There is honestly something liberating about not worrying about dings, scratches, or expensive replacement parts.

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