Itβs that time of year again when my partner gets upset with me because Iβm not the kind of person that ever wants anythingβ¦
My partner always wants this or that. They mention things they want all the time. So I write down what I hear. Gift holidays are covered easily because I try to pay attention.
I feel bad though. I know itβs hard when I donβt talk about things I want. And when asked, I donβt know what to say. It only ends up causing me anxiety.
This is so dumb. What does a person who doesnβt want things want for their birthday?
I always go with experiences over stuff. I want to do something with the people I care about and collect memories instead of things. It gives people the freedom to be as frugal or lavish as they want and I donβt have to store or return anything.