Lemdro.id

20 points

8 months ago

Yea, but being soft on myself also doesn’t work, and I just lose my patience with myself real quick because it’s annoying that I never get anything done.

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𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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15 points

8 months ago

if neither works then you might as well be kind to yourself, ne

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7 points

8 months ago

I Can’t… :(

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𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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10 points

8 months ago

it’s hard work! I struggle with it myself, everyday

here’s a secret, though: you’re good, actually, even if you don’t Do Thing. I will believe this for you, even if your brain won’t

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6 points

8 months ago

thanks :(

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Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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9 points

8 months ago

It’s might sound kinda silly but one thing that helped me be kinder to myself was thinking about how I treat others

I’d never treat people I cared about how I was treating myself so trying to be as kind to myself as I was to others was the goal I set for myself

And overtime it became easier and easier to be kind to myself about my short comings

Yeah I may fail to do all the tasks I set out for myself today but I did accomplish somethings

It may even be little things some days and other days it’s not a whole lot at all

But the kinder I was to myself the more I found myself able to do the things I set out to do

I still stumble some days but that’s okay

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5 points

8 months ago

Thanks for these words. This is a smart point of view.

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Uiop@lemmy.dbzer0.com

2 points

8 months ago

That reminds me of Rossmanns last video where he tells the story of how he discovered that he himself has also worth, especially compared to brokem apple computers.

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3 points

8 months ago

I think the trick is to be kind to yourself but to try different methods to solve your issues until you find one that fits. For example, a lot of people are helped by just having a schedule beforehand, so that’s generally one of the first things that get recommended.

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