Interested in any/all perspectives, how are the sensations different or similar, do you have a preference and why, is one or the other more erotic to think about, out of 10, how would you rank the best vaginal vs the best anal?

And if you have a penis and experience penetrating both, definitely answer the same questions!

Reason I ask is I have a penis and find vaginal penetration very hot (both thinking about it and doing it lol), and I’m curious what it feels like, but the closest I’ll get to experiencing it myself is either in dreams or however similar anal penetration is. So I wanted to see what y’all thought 😊

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Not primarily, I can (since the last baby rearranged things) get off from PIV in doggy or any position really. But that tight missionary, wow it’s just intense, especially if the guy is angled upward.

If you are trying to figure out whether you are missing out not having a pussy, I don’t know - I do think female sexual response is stronger but not sure it’s the equipment (one of my kids is trans and the doctor says if they take testosterone enough to look more male, it will inhibit the sexual response they have with female chemistry, even though as far as I know it’s the wee bit of testosterone in that chemistry that is making it possible for women to get off so hard) and honestly the feeling you want being sandwiched, that likely will be intense as heck.

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Yeah, I think I’m not so much trying to figure out if I’m missing out not having a pussy, moreso I know there are certain sensations that will just not be possible for be so I’m trying to get a clearer idea what the difference between what I can experience and what I can’t is, if that makes sense. And not just the difference in orgasm, either, but everything leading up to it.

Interesting, the main things I’ve heard (which is not much, to be fair) is that getting on testosterone makes trans folks more horny, like going through a second puberty. Maybe that’s just temporary?

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not a doctor, but my experience as a trans guy has led me to believe that getting off isn’t really a function of hormones so much as it is nerves. hormones help arrange some things (e.g. vaginal lubrication) that can make getting off easier / more enjoyable, but with enough patience, time, and comfort, you can more or less get off with the same intensity post-transition as one did pre-transition

although transmasc hrt does open up some new ways to get off that your kid will probably enjoy a lot lol

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