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Ok but are you a cishet “ally” or a “cishet” ally

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15 points

This is what matters. I was a “cishet” ally for years until I found out I wasn’t het and until I found out being cis is silly

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6 points

Is it possible to remain “cishet” eternally? I kinda like a little gay sex but I don’t want to appropriate bi culture because society totally sees me as het

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Yeah but society’s homophobic as fuck and claiming you can’t be bi because your in (or have only had) straight relationships is one of its ways of erasing queer attraction. If you like a little bit of gay alongside your straight no one here will gatekeep you from describing yourself as bi. Society calls me a man - doesn’t mean I am one.

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4 points

Okay I guess I can be a little bi, as a treat

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I kinda like a little gay sex but

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