Or do you prefer other adjectives? Do you consider it to be insulting or do you take it for a compliment if it was meant as one? (Assume an amenable relationship between the two people, not a random stranger or creeper)

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It super depends on who’s saying it!

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For me being cute is not a looks thing but more of a behaviour/personality compliment so i like it

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If you want to say you like how I look compliment one of the grooming, fashion, or accessory choices, and I’ll get the hint.

Hell, compliment my muscles. Literally just compliment anything I have agency over.

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Yes because I am cute. Actually. That’s my aesthetic.

Edit: I see a lot of people calling it infantilizing, but it’s my personality. And I’m older than other people on here have said they are.

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really depends on the context. if i’m showing off my cosplay, no. If I’m receiving an award and posing for the camera – yeah my looks aren’t relevant.

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