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I have, more or less, lost all hope for my transition. I am the same place now as I was ten months ago. I don’t sound right, I don’t look right, I don’t feel right. Everyone else is moving on further and faster, and seems to be getting more results from less work.

I just want to go in to hiding and let everyone forget I exist.

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Was interesting to find out that I am trans last week. I won’t get to do shit about it till I move out for university in a year(I will be 19) but I have a supportive group of friends so coming out to them wasn’t too bad. Plan is to start DIY and also start with a therapist and eventually move to offical channels.

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Welcome :3

Good job figuring it out early! I hope everything goes well.

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thanks :3 :3 :3 .Is 18 really early? I have read online that people even tend to think it’s too old

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I mean, some people figure it out before puberty, but it’s faster than me at 40! And there are many people transitioning much later still. Enjoy being young and pretty!

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I just wanna cuddle

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<3

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has been okay actually!!! got to relax and talk wif friens and have fun yeyyyyy!

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Now if only my wife was attracted to women things would be perfect.

Tell me about it! Although mine hasn’t seen much in me as a man (at least after 30), so maybe I’ll have more luck without the disguise :3

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General trans community.

Rules:

  1. Follow all blahaj.zone rules

  2. All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.

  3. Don’t post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.

Resources:

Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.

Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/

[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination

[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/

[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/

[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/

[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I’ll add here to pass it on

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