I dunno, I thought it would be higher. I guess I’m just a slut surrounded by sluts (positive).
What do you think about the number? Does it surprise you? Does it surprise you that it surprises me? Did you expect it to be lower maybe? If so why?

I just find this interesting. No judgement (unless you want that you dirty little gremlin)

I dunno, I thought it would be higher.

Sorry, I’m dragging it down adn shouldn’t not have been counted

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it seems like 99% of people are; either that or i’m the hoar of bablyon incarnate. lol

(and i’m practically celibate compared to the men i see at the clubs).

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The volcel vanguard salutes you

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I assume you’re just being funny, but on the off-chance that you aren’t: Don’t be sorry for not having sex. People should not think less of you on the base of the amount of sex you have, and you shouldn’t either. Of course that can be hard with all the culture around sex and sexual partners, but please know there is nothing wrong with not fucking.

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Yeah, I was just doing a Spiders Georg bit. However I do sometimes(oftentimes) feel a bit mal baisée, as they say in the baguette language, and although I’m like 99% deprogrammed from mainstream Sex Culture by this point, I still end up worrying about others’ judgment even if I think it’s bunk.

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:yea: it sucks how we get judged for not having enough sex and also for having too much sex. What amount is the right amount of sex? Whichever amount you’re doing will be wrong. Also you could totally be banging someone prettier/they’re only with you because you’re pretty.
Mainstream sex culture sucks. Underground sex culture also sucks, but in different ways.

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People should not think less of you on the base of the amount of sex you have, and you shouldn’t either.

This is a nice thought, but insults based on amount of sex are absurdly common. I have seen quite a few people on this site who still do these insults, and it doesn’t get removed when I report it. The incel article from a while go was about how we should critique incels for their misogyny rather than them failing to have sex, I see this as pretty similar to the arguments about not body-shaming fascists in that most of the people who will get hit by the insult are not the actual target. From what I remember, that article good job explaining why these insults are harmful and how they hurt a lot of people who they really shouldn’t, unfortunately the discussion on that post was very off topic. In my experience, most people who have sex fail to recognize that not everyone who is celibate is an incel (“If so many terrible people have sex and you can’t, that must mean you are worse than they are!”).

I would say that insults based on amount of sex a person has should not be allowed, but I am very pessimistic about this actually leading to a change in site culture.

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I completely agree. I feel the need to point out (in a non hostile way) that that is why I used the word “should”. They shouldn’t, they do, but they shouldn’t.

And yes, I also dislike how incel has become a leftist acceptable way of calling someone a virgin.
I hope it’s okay, but I’ve used you comment in a post asking wether incel should become a no-no word

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Same here, I’m celibacy georg throwing off the average

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8 points

Having sex with -10,000 people every night

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Not surprised that most people claiming to have had sexed thousands are in fact big ol’ pants on fire fibbers.

Unless you’re Castro, which is 100% true because he’s sexy.

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I was devastated upon hearing this news. When I was in 6th grade Kyle told me he’d already had a sex with 100 people so I set out to be better than stupid Kyle and now I learn I sucked all these dicks for nothing?? Wth Kyle

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Even Castro’s numbers were inflated by the CIA. He definitely had sex more than average person. But the stuff like a different woman every night is propaganda to portray him as a sexual predator.

He was kind of a serial monogamist. He’d have an intense relationship for weeks or months were he genuinely seemed to love his partners but then they’d drift apart or events would overtake them (like Lisa Howard the US journalist who the CIA almost certainly killed).

He does have like 11 children to multiple mothers that are known of (not including Justin Trudeau). So it’s still a lot.

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He’d have an intense relationship for weeks or months were he genuinely seemed to love his partners but then they’d drift apart or events would overtake them (like Lisa Howard the US journalist who the CIA almost certainly killed).

Relatable

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more than one of my exes have been killed by the CIA

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I think I’m just under that number but I’m not a big sex guy

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13 points

Honestly thought the number would be like 6.

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slightly above average gang we out here i see u family

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