It is no more or less attractive. Just something fun to explore.

It’s complicated, but also simple. The thing is, the better you know yourself and are honest about it, the better. You might lose points with people who don’t have the same interests but would be an okayish match, but by being clear about what genuinely gets you going you’ll make sure you don’t miss out on someone who’d be a great match, and that’s what really counts. Never judge yourself by the ones who aren’t interested.

I don’t. But that’s a personal choice.

However I think one of the main reasons why some are that attracted to it is because of the “forbidden” nature of the act.

There are people all over the spectrum. I find anal with my wife to be super hot. She orgasms really hard from anal. That isn’t the case with everyone. Honestly, if she didn’t love it, it wouldn’t be super high on my list. I get off by getting her off.

Being willing to try new things is admirable and sexy, but so is someone who has boundaries that they can openly and proudly share.

Let a thousand flowers bloom. Everyone’s preferences with a consenting adult are valid and appropriate.

I would say that if the degree of atraction someone has for you depends on you being into anal, that is not the right person for you.

I personally enjoy anal. My partner enjoys it as well. It’s great, we have a lot of fun. My previous partner did not. And that was fine as well.

Do you enjoy anal? Or do you not? If you do, great. If you do not, great.