You can fool around as much as you may want to but you can’t have penetrative sex, of any kind.

What would be your strategy to still enjoy some sexy time?

I would personally resort to heavy petting and mutual masturbation.

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Fully clothed humping would do the trick at that point

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Oral and handjobs, my gf’s oral and manual skills are awesome. Sometimes, her blowjobs feel even better than penetrative sex. She knows exactly where and how to lick and suck, and I think I could probably last like six months with just blowjobs haha. She also enjoys how I rub and touch her, and most of the time, she reaches orgasm with my fingers, so it would be okay for both of us.

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Lots of oral and handjobs.

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@pinkpint how close can you get to cumming from sucking cock?

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I can’t cum from sucking cock, but oral goes both ways.

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@pinkpint of course. What position do you most love to be eaten in?

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You guys are having sex??

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This happened to me, but on top of it I wasn’t supposed to orgasm (cervix surgery) I just did the husband with hands & mouth. 6 weeks. But that was so hard without reciprocation and I ended up having lots of sex dreams with orgasm, my body was not on board with the no O thing.

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@RBWellsV23 sounds both tortuous and delicious. It’s a long long time since I actually had a dream that resulted in me cumming, such a nice way to wake up but even then, I imagine it just makes you all the more hungry for penetration?

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I thought it was just a standard girl thing but more sex makes more sex drive? Maybe that is more individual. I made it (except for the dreams) but more of a drag than a tease overall I would say, especially the trying not to get turned on.

But it didn’t break anything long term, sex drive came through fine we still have sex every day, years later. I do get the dreams sometimes still, always have but not so often, a few times a year? Yes it’s nice to wake up and do it again!

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I can’t imagine the urges… hope you had fun when the worst was over.

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