I’m thinking about proposing to my girl, however we both think diamonds as a standard is stupid and overrated, we both prefer much more colorful and comparatively cheaper gemstones like rubies and sapphires, but I’m having trouble finding a good place for that, I’ve never done this before, any ideas?

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Any jeweler.

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Any independent jeweler can help you out.

I will say one practical consideration is that diamonds are really hard and don’t get scratched. You may want to consider hardness for any replacement gemstone (rubies and sapphires are the next hardest).

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buy lab grown stones then go to a local jeweler to pick out the setting for it

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Go to a small local jeweler. They can often make you something custom for much less than the price of a chain store. They’ll also be able to walk you through all the options and advantages of each. If you’re having trouble finding that little mom and pop spot, Google jewelry repair. 9 out of 10 of those businesses will be more than happy to take on your project.

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