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If you’re making 150k per year and “living paycheck to paycheck” you suck with money, full stop.

That’s more than double median household income

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Wholely agree. I live in the most expensive region in the US on $160k base salary. My total annual expenses (including vacations, wants, gifts) don’t exceed $50k, and of that $20k is rent.

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Well yeah, but you probably make good choices which is arguably cheating.

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I don’t think that would be a winnable argument.

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I think the point is, they are living paycheck to paycheck unless they choose to decrease the quality of living.

On one hand we can say these people are way better off than they deserve and laugh at their stupidity.

On the other hand, that’s not a great sign for the economy. The “every day” kind of rich person isn’t even that rich anymore. And lowering the ceiling pushes you into the floor.

If society were healthier and functioning, relative costs would be going down for everybody. But enshitification is the new big thing to earn another buck.

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I think the point is, they are living paycheck to paycheck unless they choose to decrease the quality of living.

People who actually live paycheck to paycheck don’t have this option and this is ludicrously offensive to people who actually live this way.

On one hand we can say these people are way better off than they deserve and laugh at their stupidity.

It’s not about laughing at their stupidity but about the situation itself being laughable.

The “every day” kind of rich person isn’t even that rich anymore. And lowering the ceiling pushes you into the floor.

I thought lowering these gaps was the intention of Progressivism. Is it not?

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Lowering the gap between 10th and 90th percentile is meaningless if the very top doesn’t change too

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I think it’s just one more side effect of “American exceptionalism” and the culture of individuality and “me me me me” here, that people don’t even see “change your lifestyle” as an option.

They were told about the American dream or whatever, but they were sold a bill of goods, and now they can’t even comprehend cutting back on expenses in any meaningful way.

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This is out of touch. There is a huge number of factors that dictate what amount of money is enough to live a fulfilled live. A bachelor can live a fulfilled life on 30k a year and still save money, but a family of 5 can definitely be living paycheck to paycheck on 150k, especially if they live in an expensive area.

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Children are a choice, plan accordingly for the children’s benefit.

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So poor people shouldn’t have kids, got it.

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Do you not live in America? Children are not a choice is a country that doesn’t enshrine access to abortion.

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If you’re living paycheck to paycheck on $150k you’re stupid full stop.

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I rarely downvote, but you earned it.

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I already did this one elsewhere. $150k is a decent middle class life barely in lower cost of living areas. Probably shouldn’t be paycheck to paycheck, but it wouldn’t hard to be either.

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I mean, this depends on a lot of factors. Stop applying your own prejudice to this?

$150/y = ~$100-110k take home

The average monthly expenses (Living very much in your means, in an area with avg cost of living, not performing maintenance…etc) for a family of 4 is ~$101k/y

So you have between ~ -$80/m to +$700/m in disposable income. If you start doing the necessary maintenance & long term cost amatorization of living in the U.S. (ie. Having to buy a car eventually, if you own a home replacing the roof…etc). Suddenly you’re close to negative. Meaning that when these events happen you have to cover their cost with credit card debt or some other form of debt, which means your cost of living is over time partially covered by debt.

This also seems that you are living not surviving… Much of the US is not really living, they are simply surviving. We should not measure the bar that low for what we consider acceptable quality of living standards.

Or, if you are in a marginally higher cost of living area that $700/m evaporates.

Even for a single person, a HCOL area will eat way that income to the point where eating out is a monthly luxury.

It sounds like a lot of money but depending on where you live it can be an incredibly small amount of money.

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Nope. If people having been living the exact same without changing many of their habits then it is absolutely fair that they would also be struggling paycheck to paycheck. They’re effected just as the rest are. We need to focus on the jackass causing us to turn on eachother. We shouldn’t be comparing ourselves because there are people who consider 30k/y as living lavish and think they also shouldn’t be complaining.

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If people having been living the exact same without changing many of their habits then it is absolutely fair that they would also be struggling paycheck to paycheck

If you can’t play for the future you will be poor. I owe you no sympathy

You’re one of the richest people on the planet, by default, and I think you should pay more in taxes and it should be on you to figure out your finances, because you’re fucking rich and you just don’t realize it.

The most wealthy places on earth should not be held up as the norm and most people should not live in those places. We should tax all of those people excessively and they should not have guaranteed wealth.

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I’m almost there.

I also live in the Bay Area. My rent is locally cheap but nationally very high. My wife has a chronic illness and an unrelated acute issue that recently required surgery. She can barely work. Until this most recent surgery I was keeping ahead, but expenses are up and income is down and that’s not true anymore.

I have good health insurance but there’s a lot more to medical costs than just doctors, and to partially manage her daily quality of life it’s not weird to cook her three different dinners and she can only stomach one. This explodes our meal budget.

We’re childfree but one of our dogs recently also got diagnosed with chronic illness. They are our kids, full stop.

Shit happens. Don’t be a dick about it.

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You sound like the exception not the rule.

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13 points

I think you’d be surprised how many people live in cities and have medical expenses. This dude doesn’t even have kids.

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I think location definitely plays into this. 150k in some places is nothing.

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My combined household income is more than 150k per year and I have not changed my spending habits since I was in college… caveat being I own a house but my mortgage may only be twice what I was paying in rent. Also I now have healthcare.

Still living paycheck to paycheck. I guess I’d be ok if I missed one or both my wife and I missed one. Though, my marriage would start to be in jeopardy after 2 or 3 I’d guess. Not that she would leave me because I’m not making enough but the added stress would quickly become unmanageable.

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Same, except I have a functional TV now lol

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If you are living in an area with a high cost of living, $150k won’t feel like $150k.

From Bungalow, 10 Mist Expensive Cities in the US,

  1. San Francisco, CA The cost of living in San Francisco is the highest in the country. Jobs in the City by the Bay pay well, with average annual incomes of over $100,000. In 2019, the city had an unemployment rate as low as 1.8%. But a good chunk of each check goes toward the nation’s highest housing costs. As of January 2020, the average rent for an apartment in San Francisco was $3,700, and the median home purchase price was $1.35 million. Prices are sky-high because of limited housing stock and lack of new construction.

If you are making $100k and renting at the average rental price of $3,700, in one year the cost your housing is $44,400 which is almost 45% of your income. The goal is to spend 30% of your income on housing. If people with would be normally considered to have a good income are struggling then the poor are completely fucked.

There is a small group of people who are making money off this system and ain’t us.

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San Francisco, CA The cost of living in San Francisco is the highest in the country. Jobs in the City by the Bay pay well, with average annual incomes of over $100,000

Now imagine one just doesn’t choose to live in the literal most expensive place on the planet.

FWIW the only people benefiting from this shitty exclusionary zoning are the boomers who rigged the zoning so they stay rich forever. It’s entirely a localized problem.

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Now imagine one just doesn’t choose to live in the literal most expensive place on the planet.

Because the jobs I want to work will relocate to the midwest to help me cover rent. /s

And before you tell me to take a less-fancy job, some of the problems a person might want to solve are far more interesting and rewarding than the kinds of “tech” jobs available in a place like Austin, TX. No comparison at all. People don’t work hard to do things that don’t interest them.

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Ah, the classic, “Why don’t they just move?”

Checkmate

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They use the median instead of mean here for a reason… Can you guess it?

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Because mean income is a useless metric in most contexts due to it being extremely warped due to outliers (billionaires) since this country has the worst income inequality in the first world by far…? Do I get a trophy now

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If you’re making 150k and are living paycheck to paycheck you either live in a crazy expensive area or are a total fucking idiot when it comes to managing your money.

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Hmmm you’re not going to be making 150k a year in a shit fly over state.

I moved from the Bay Area to the East side of Washington near Seattle, folks here don’t make as much as I do for sure, at least not on average. We both have good salaries so we can afford a lot of things. We essentially got to keep most of our bay area salaries.

But even then if we need a big repair we still have to sit down and plan out the money.

I can’t even imagine what it’s like for folks around here.

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I live in Nebraska, and all comp included make around 155k per year salary + bonus. You can make that kind of money even here in the “shit”

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What’s your title?

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That’s good what’s your title?

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In California, a new mortgage payment is 8-15k/month. Rent on an apartment is 3-4k/month. $150k salary isn’t enough for the mortgage and will struggle to cover that cost of rent.

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In California, a new mortgage payment is 8-15k/month. Rent on an apartment is 3-4k/month

Buddy of mine lives in LA and was just posting angry complaints about his rent going up to 1800/mo, so no.

I’ve got three friends in the LA area and one in the Bay and none of them pay anything close to 3k/mo rent or 8k(!!!) on their mortgages.

Those numbers are insane.

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LA is cheap compared to the Bay Area. Also, I’m quoting numbers for new mortgages and new rentals. If you got your mortgage even 3 years ago, the numbers will be different.

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Household income not personal income? And gross not net, correct? After healthcare, taxes and retirement deductions my net is 50% of gross so let’s say that calculates to 6,250 a month. It is a lot of money! But for a household of 4, 2 paid off cars 3 drivers and one college student with no tuition costs, and one high schooler in a school that gives everyone lunch(so it could be much worse) here the average community monthly costs are:

2.5k mortgage with the tax & insurance in there, make that 3k if you are renting.

800/ month car insurance

600/month electric, water, internet

200/month family cell phone service

50/month streaming and donations to community radio

600/month average repair & maintenance on home and cars

Leaving 1700 for food for 4, gas, vet bills, credit card payments (because if someone is making bank now, they got there by making less for years). It’s certainly reasonable but here it’s about the least you can make household - wise and be solid, so if you are making 50k, you need three people working not two. And I can see how a family could get behind. That 2.5k plus $600 housing cost can be much more if you bought a house in the last year or so, and car loan or tuition could also blow this up, as could a medical emergency.

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800/ month car insurance

The fuck? Why is your car insurance so expensive?

600/month electric, water, internet

The fuck? Why are you water and electric bills so high? I live alone, but my water bill is always <$40 and my electric bill is $70-$150 depending on if I’m running the A/C or heater.

Internet for me is only $25/month because I use my phone for Internet and have unlimited data with Visible.

200/month family cell phone service

Switch to Visible, like I said. $25/month per line and you all have unlimited data so you can cut your cable Internet.

50/month streaming and donations to community radio

Complete waste of money. You don’t get to do these and then complain you don’t have enough.

600/month average repair & maintenance on home and cars

Lol, what? Are you constantly hitting your walls with hammers? Do you do offroading in a sedan? No way you’re spending $600 per month on home/car repairs (on average) unless you’re driving a Benz or BMW.

That said, thank you for listing out your expenses. It’s a way more fruitful discussion when we talk actual numbers instead of vague “I don’t have enoughs.”

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I’m buying whatever I want and putting 10% in my 401(k) and that’s exactly the same as being poor

These people lol

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Nope. 2 cars and 3 drivers here with one of them 18 years old. Highest cost car insurance market in the nation. But without that third driver our household income wouldn’t hit the $150k.

Electric, Water, Internet. That’s mostly electricity. Electric bill is higher since I’m working from home, and everything in the house is electric (no gas bill) we don’t eat out much, cook a lot. Very high in the summer. Big windows, high ceilings, old house. Water includes garbage and is usually $100 or so. Internet about $75 FIOS so I can work from home mostly (2 cars not 3 that way).

The $200 is a legacy t mobile plan covering 8 people so if needed I could get the grown kids to cover half of it, that one is high but not per line, we just pay it because if we cut them off it would still cost us $200 for 4 lines.

House is older and cars are too. Tenting for termites has to happen every 10 years and costs 10k, we’ve had to fix plumbing, electric, replace an old porch, need blinds to help with the electrical cost, and the cars won’t last forever - I honestly think the $600 may be underestimating the cost of maintenance, not overestimating.

And of course every month something happens. Vet bills, or some medical cost, or car repair eats the 600 AND the plumbing springs a leak, or I have to work weekends and we buy restaurant food - no month is just bills.

It’s easy to go cheap for awhile, I have done that plenty. We have dry beans, rice, a garden. But things fall apart. I am putting here the cost of maintenance because if we don’t accrue this $600ish, it will end up costing even more. It’s a real cost.

Oh, and I know this isn’t poor, lol. In my 20s lived with 3 families in one house and dumpster dived to make ends meet. Then raised 4 kids with a guy who, halfway through, decided he couldn’t work. 6 people living on what I could make, we are paying that deficit now too. Even so, this is is an awesome life, I am not complaining at all. Just saying that the bills do take most of the netpay if the real cost of housing and transportation is included.

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It’s both. People try to always live above their means. Inflation causes that to catch up

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Go look at a mortgage or even rent in any major city.

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Hi, this is pretty much me, and I concur. If you can’t live on $150k then you are definitely making some questionable decisions. That’s around $8k/m take home. Even if you are spending $4k on rent/mortgage, you should have plenty left over to live on.

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3 points

Do you have kids?

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I own a home just outside of a city and my mortgage is 1060/mo. 3BR, 3 bath, finished basement, on a half acre.

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Good for you. I bet you have to drive everywhere and you don’t even realize that the cost of the infrastructure to make your life convient is bankrupting your closest city.

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Good thing there are plenty of places to live outside of major cities.

The only people who this isn’t a solution for are those who feel they’re entitled to live in places they can’t afford 🤷

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A lot of people like not commuting several hours a day, or having access to actual culture, or not being constantly robbed by meth heads, or not being murdered because of their Identity, or about a million other things that are difficult to impossible outside of cities…

But fuck all the queer and trans people who escaped to the safety of cities. If they can’t afford t, they shouldn’t be there, right? /s

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15 points

Terrible assumption

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100% agree

PS: porque no los dos?

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Rent in NYC where I live is insane. My partner and I recently toured a place where they broke up the basement of a building into 4 apartments, none of which had a real bedroom, and were asking for $3k each

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Supply and demand.

You can always move somewhere else and have hope of one day owning property. Or you can rent forever and have nothing to pass on to your kids.

The choice is yours. I wouldn’t wait around for others to solve your problems.

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Ya, people should be forced to move away from their family and friends and home by insane cost of living and instead of sympathy we should just expect them to single handedly solve an entire fucked up economic system.

🤡

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This is a trend everywhere, I just recently moved to different apartment and I’d say 8/10 apartments I saw on Zillow and the other sites were these “open concept” or whatever 1 bedrooms and hallway kitchens. It’s depressing

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Move to Ohio and you can buy a house for significantly less than your current rent.

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Look at the positive side. When sea levels start rising, you’d be first to notice that!

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I know a few programmers that are broke because they spend every penny that comes in and bought a $90k car the moment they got their jobs.

I don’t understand why people give up financial security willingly like that

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11 points

Student loans

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Try making $150k in a “reasonably priced area.” It can be done, but is not the norm. The problem is that to make a good salary, you have to be in a place that pays those wages. Obviously, this attracts more people, so real estate is more expensive.

The trick is to make $150k in some kind of sweet spot where housing does not compensate. But it’s always a moving target and is extremely difficult. Then in you lose your job? Start all over again.

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My salary is $160k in the most expensive region in the country. My total yearly expenses don’t exceed $50k, $20k of which is rent. The rest maxes out my 401k and goes towards a house down payment fund. I have a $30k emergency fund in case I lose my job which gives me 9 months of runway.

I’m not a nomad by any means. I have very nice things and I spend a grand a month on wants (eating out, my hobbies, whatever else I impulse order from Amazon), but I’m extremely aware of all my purchases and budget out every transaction at the end of every week. Hell, I just spent $2k on Christmas to get my family very nice gifts, but I’ve been spending less and sacrificing wants the past few months to offset that to prevent lifestyle creep.

This is a financial literacy problem, not a $150k is not a lot of money problem.

ETA: I split rent 50/50 with my partner in the California Bay area for a decent-sized 2b2.5b townhouse. My friends who do have 5 housemates, as so many of you seem to think I do, pay $1050 a month in rent, or $12.6k a year.

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You live in the most expensive region of the country but you only pay $20k in rent? Is your idea of “most expensive” Akron or something?

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How many housemates do you have?

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Because in your world, mobile home trailer parks are free or even exist in urban areas. Come on. A studio apartment around here starts at $1600/mo. The average home sale price in this area in 2022 was $580k. At 10% down, 30 year fixed, at 6.5% interest, after taxes and fees, that’s a mortgage payment of about $4000/mo. Plus about $300-600/mo if you have an HOA/COA. Plus repairs as needed.

Your net take home pay at $150k, after taxes only, is about $9k, making your mortgage 45% of your income. That doesn’t include health insurance, retirement, or any other paycheck deductions.

It doesn’t include transportation: payments, gas, repairs, tolls, or insurance.

That doesn’t include utilities: gas, electric, water, trash, phone, or internet.

That doesn’t include food, supplies, clothing, or personal care.

And it sure as shit doesn’t include medical issues. God help you if you’re a diabetic.

And kids? What are you, fucking Rockefeller? Daycare, schooling (yes, even public schools cost money because of all the extras they ask you to provide like supplies, lunch, etc), and all their needs. At at least 16 years before they might be able to pay rent, that’s a long time for a free tenant sharing your resources.

Plus all of life’s extra costs.

And looking at Zillow, I can’t find any properties within 10 miles of me going for less than $600k. They got townhomes for 1.2 million just down the block. $580k for a house is gonna be hard to find, and probably not in the best condition. Doable, possibly, but not easy.

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I started working remotely and then left America. Now I live in a very low cost of living city and haven’t owed more than 1-2% taxes in years… It blows my mind that more people don’t do this.

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Where did you go? And how do you not pay fed taxes working for an American company? Or is it a foreign company?

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If they did, it wouldn’t be a low cost of living area for long

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Most people won’t do something if they think it’s “too hard,” even if it will solve their problems.

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4 points

You just explained how work from home jobs will transform how people buy housing and where they buy it.

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Let’s pump up the flyover real estate market?

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Yeah, my job went remote in 2020 and this year I moved out of the city and just bought my first house in my home state where the cost of living is almost 1/2 of my former city. I could’ve would’ve never bought a place where I was before. I’m sure someone would have loaned me the money but that felt like a death sentence for my small amount of disposable income.

I make $150k and learned to manage a very strict budget living in the city. Now I have some disposable income and my own house with a yard.

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Or you only consider your expenses after savings and think that you are “living paycheck to paycheck” because you use up all your non-invested money by the end of the month.

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Oh boo hoo. Try making about half that, like me and my wife do (combined). It isn’t fun.

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Dude. Get a grip. These people are far closer to you in wealth than the people who fund SuperPACs or own news organizations. You have much more in common with someone who makes $150k/year than you do with Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, George Soros, Warren Buffet, Rupert Murdoch, or whoever the fuck else has obscene amounts of money. Those people, the billionaire class, the 0.01%, are the people using their larges to influence politics and media.

These people making $150k/year are overextending themselves, I get it, but if I actually spent the money I wanted to spend on improving my life, especially in relation to things like my health, I would be looking at needing to spend that kind of money each year. My teeth are falling out of my god damned head and I’ve gotten the cost of such things shared with me and it’s out of fucking control. I’m talking like $10k for one of the many problems I have in my mouth. The others aren’t cheaper. All it means is that we are so poor that we’re literally putting off life-saving medical care because it’s fucking unaffordable. All people making $150k a year are doing is just barely scraping by while actually getting that care.

Oh no, they own a single super shitty, hollowed out house that is busted as hell and needs massive repairs constantly. Yeah, man, they’re doing so much better than us just because they have a house. /s Like maybe take a minute and understand a lot of those people just bought their house, and it’s not like they were buying it in their 20’s.

People making this much are not your enemy, they are the people you have to convince that the system is broken and get them on your side.

People whose entire wealth and income comes from investments are the people who are your real fucking enemy.

Because guess what, these $150k/year stiffs still work for a fucking living.

Because I get it, it feels like they have so much more when they’re making over $100k a year more than you, but like, they’re still treading water, just like us, just like this article points out. Trust me, if you were making that money, you’d still be pretty broke unless you didn’t have kids.

Source: my broke ass sister, a lawyer who lives in a fucking hovel that needs tons of repair and is being bled dry by medical bills, child care, a psychopathic narcissist of an ex-husband (who literally lives off of credit cars and spends like Paris Hilton) and housing costs. She didn’t buy her home until she was over 50, she’s Gen X. She’s on thin ice just like me, even though she’s doing better by a lot of measures. The only “investments” she has is her fucking 401K to try to have a halfway decent retirement (ha, as if).

EDIT: Second Source: Just remembered a conversation I had with a friend years ago when I worked at a local mexican restaurant. He was upset at the owner, because he had like a million dollars in the bank. I explained that a lot of that was because he had been in business a long time, and frankly, you need that kind of money to keep a restaurant running (thin margins). I told him at the time that any huge disruptive thing could eat into that million and make a lot of it go away fast. COVID hit, and that restaurant nearly bit the dust, but only JUST scraped through the other side. I bet they don’t have a million in the bank now, they had to shut down to satellite stores where they sold their tortillas.

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they’re still treading water, just like us

I currently have 1200 dollars and live in my mother’s basement, because I’m her full time carer while she recovers from cancer. My current retirement plan is a rope. I have a master’s degree in STEM, but you’d be surprised how many homeless people have those too.

Someone earning 150k would have to work thousands of years to become a billionaire, true.

The ultra rich are the true enemy, true.

But Jesus Christ, people earning 150k are not ‘just scraping by’.

Seriously. Get a grip. How out of touch do you have to be to think that? No concept of what true poverty looks like.

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As a 40-something guy who literally has cancer and no retirement savings and is wondering how he can even stay alive and has had a year of nothing but suicidal ideation, I still have the capacity to have compassion and not blame other working stiffs for how bad things are for me. I have a degree and I work at a fucking pizza place.

Out of touch my ass, I’m literally living a similar experience. Sorry I have the ability to consider other people’s situations instead of just my own. It’s called empathy, motherfucker. Have you heard of it??

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8 points

You might have heard of student loans. They can get rather high. You might have also heard about high cost of living areas. Houses can be pretty expensive. Another thing you might have heard about is high mortgage rates.

A new veterinarian with a specialist cert (which requires an undergrad degree, graduate degree, a shitty pay internship, and a shitty pay residency for a long time) will be sitting on $200,000 in loans and make about $200k. Now, if that person lives in Los Angeles and wants to buy a home they are going to have a loan for a million at 7%. Take-home pay on $200k after retirement/insurance/taxes is around $10k/month. Mortgage on a million is $7k/mo. Loan payments on $200k is around $1000/mo. Taxes on that house are about $1000/mo. Right there the take-home pay comes down to $1000/mo to pay for food ($600), utilities ($100), cell phone ($70), car ($300), car insurance ($100), gas ($100) internet ($100), etc. You might notice that those numbers add up to more than $1000.

Sure, that veterinarian who is already 35 years old now after all that schooling can just rent instead of buy a tiny house, but rent still costs $3000/mo in a big city for a small apartment.

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Hey, re your teeth, if you can afford this, and it hasn’t changed since then, my dad had to get something like $25,000 in dental work, so they took a trip to Costa Rica, spent about $3000 on the trip, and got the dental work for free. It sucks that people have to resort to things like that, but if you think you could afford that, I would definitely recommend looking into it.

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22 points

I’d love to see this as a paycheck breakdown. Unless you have a history of debt, a huge house, or like 8 kids I don’t see how it’s not possible to do at least moderately well on 150k/y

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Edit: before folks reply with a comment about people being worse off, I know. I agree. This is just a scenario description.

It is very easy to be strapped with a modest sized house or apartment in the “right” zip code.

As in a 1.2mil mortgage on a 3 bedroom house that’s never been renovated since the 70s. That mortgage could be 5k / month.

150000 a year is 8.7k a month, after taxes. If you have student loans, any medical debt, kids, that remaining 3.7k is pretty critical. You aren’t swimming in liquid chocolate every night and wiping with singles.

If you own a home things can happen out of nowhere. I personally just had to replace my sewer line last month. 17k for the work and 1.5k for new concrete. Not covered by my home insurance because I didn’t opt for the rider on my account. My fault there… My finances are a bit different than the above description but if you were the 150 + paycheck to paycheck situation, you’d be in hot water.

This isn’t a “woe to the 150 crowd” comment. I’m well aware folks are way, way worse off, but when a 150 household talks about being paycheck to paycheck, it’s totally possible.

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6 points

Isn’t a mortgage as high as your whole salary for 10 years unwise from the get go?

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I guess the rough reality is that some people want to live where their family lives but can’t easily afford it. I don’t know how far you need to live from SF for prices to return to reality, but I suspect it’s a 1h+ drive

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In general yes, but many many people are doing this to attempt a “normal” home the likes of which they grew up in, and that they themselves want to raise a kid in.

OR consider a household where 2 incomes of around 150 were earned when the house was purchased, but now one earner is not earning appreciably any more…maybe a stay at home parent or illness or whatever.

Again just saying some possibilities, not the normative experience.

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At least in CA where the property tax is 1%, last time I fed the info into one of those calculators a few months ago, a 1.2m house (exactly the type you describe) with a standard 20% down-payment would run closer to $8k/mo with good credit. That includes property tax and homeowners insurance, which is required to get a loan.

So yeah, that doesn’t leave a whole lot to live off of.

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12 points

There’s also the upkeep cost for repairs and to renovate.

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$150k is twice what my parents made combined back in the 90s, and they lived a solid upper middle class life in an upscale suburb of a small city. Always had a nice TV and my dad and I both had PCs that we upgraded every year AND they saved up two years worth of college for me. Amazing how quickly things have changed. They bought their house for $180k and it’s now worth nearly $500k.

My career now is generally a higher valued one than theirs, but adjusting for inflation, my pay has always been lower than theirs at the same point in their careers. And that’s the story. Incomes may have doubled since the early-mid 90s, but everything else has tripled or quadrupled.

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Inflation has doubled since 1999 so I’m not sure what your point is

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17 points

Bay area

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13 points

Yeah I could see 150k being poverty level there.

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I make less than a third of that and make it work (barely). Some people need to seriously reassess their priorities or something.

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Yeah, I was making a flat 50k a few years ago, and seeing some college classmates making three times as much complaining about how poor they were could only make me laugh.

I’m doing much better now, but it still drives me nuts when people don’t know how to appreciate what they have.

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4 points

It drives me nuts when people think their circumstances define someone else’s, too.

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11 points

Someone can appreciate what they have and still struggle to support a family, repair and maintaine a house, pay deductibles and co-pays for medical treatments, support an unemployed or ailing family member, pay student loans, pay car loans, send remittances to family in a home country, etc. They could simply live in a HCOL area. There are many not unusual scenarios that could have a household making $150k/year struggle.

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10 points

You don’t get any sort of financial assistance?

I grew up on the poverty line. Food Stamps and Affortable Housing programs got us by.

I worked my ass off to get above the threshold of qualifying for any sort of assistance, and now I live at about the same level because food and rent eat up the difference between what I make and what my parents made.

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Nope, no direct financial assistance. Though my parents are close by, and do help with things like inviting me over to dinner like once a month and helping me buy used furniture, if that counts. I shop very frugally and don’t have expensive hobbies. The only thing I’m really missing is savings.

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1 point

We are cut from different cloths.

I hope you the best.

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Many probably live in higher cost of living areas.

And it’s entirely possible/likely if they move to a lower cost of living area they will suddenly not make anywhere near as much and still live paycheck to paycheck.

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9 points

What’s even the point of your comment, I’m not trying to be rude it just seems unhelpful and the attitude is prevalent. Sure, if people adjust their habits they could make due, but the problem is the fucking robbery of all working people so it’s just wasting time bickering with points like this.

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The point is that there is something fishy going on if you make $150k and still can’t make ends meet.

My hunch is that there is obvious excess spending on things that aren’t needed, and downsizing is the best solution. Families don’t need a $80k SUV when a sedan would do for example. Joneses be damned.

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Your 150k number continues to highlight how oblivious you are to the current state of the economy.

1 mil… maybe that has gotten past the orphan crushing machine/boring dystopia threshold, but there is almost no physical quality of life difference between someone making 50k a year and someone making 150k a year.

How does the old adage go?

Mo money mo problems.

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