Hiya girlies!
From tomorrow I am visiting my partner’s highly Catholic, Eastern European parents, so I will have to pretend to be a boy for like two weeks straight.
I already know I’m gonna feel disgusting when I get back.
So what things do you do to feel cute and feminine? I’d love to have some nice things to try when I am safe again.
Thank you <3
I’m sorry you have to suffer this.
As an ally I’d suggest, all the things my wife loves, in the hope that it may help?
Subversive- wear your best silky underwear, hidden so the fam won’t know.
Overt — before and after; tea, a long indulgent bath and self care, mani - pedi (maybe best for after)
I hope any of this helps.
I’m a female at birth, so not sure if I’m supposed to comment here, but I was just telling my husband earlier this week that layering makes me feel distinctly feminine! I wore a slip with a bit of lace at the bottom hem, and then a slightly shorter slip with extra fabric at the hem, then a dress over both for Thanksgiving for flowy peak a boo layers. The act of putting on several beautiful and soft and lovely layers that were pointless beyond being pretty made me feel so happy and girly :)
I hope you can find some stuff that makes you feel happy and girly :)
If it were me, I’d be wearing thigh highs and/or panties under my boyclothes >:)
But to answer your question:
Painting nails, a classic.
Cleaning, trimming and filing nails to make them look nice.
Relaxing in a nice long bath.
Shaving or otherwise removing body hair.
Put a ribbon or flower in your hair!
Gosh now I regret forcing myself not to buy thigh highs or skirts or anything until I lose weight hehehe~
The comfy warm bath and shaving session does sound perrrrfect though, all the steam and soft girl smells (:
I know from experience gaining and losing weight that my legs aren’t getting smaller. I’ve bought some of my bottoms with stretchiness and ties so they are one size too big but fit fine, and just hoping my jeans that are one size too big can get shrunk by bathing with them on in hot water, or whatever. My one skirt has an elastic waistband. You could consider it once you’re feeling girly and taken care of.
If you’re going to do your nails, treat yourself to a crystal/glass file. They don’t cost loads (I got a “Mont Bleu” set of 3 off amazon for less than £10, they look like this😏) but seriously - not only are they so much smoother to use, they really help stop them breaking and fraying as much at the tips, so they can grow longer and stronger!
Lately its been skincare :) doing my daily routine makes me feel fresh bright and girly. Ive gotten really into it and the difference it makes on your face is amazing! Just taking good care of myself and my body makes me feel very feminine. Doing my hair every day, picking out my outfits, taking good care of my teeth. Investing time and energy into me. It feels good, and I try my best to do it each day.
I have recently discovered an invention. It covers blemishes, wrinkles, and has been known to at least one person to help with self-confidence. I call it “makeup.”
Joking aside, I’m starting to find that incorporating makeup into my morning routine helps with my self-image and confidence. And a little goes a long way! A bit of foundation or concealer, some eyeshadow, some blush, a touch of lipstick, and in 20 or so minutes, you’ll look fabulous! I’ve only applied it to myself a few times, but getting some help from my kids and some new friends has helped me a lot!
If you aren’t comfortable with makeup yet, I suggest finding a few trusted friends to paint you up and give you some pointers, if you haven’t already!
