Reading comments in different communities, I noticed that users hardly leave smilies. Why is that?

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No idea, here’s a sword

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That’s a nice sword.

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Massive fucking sord

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that’s what she said

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That’s whut sheltac said

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BigDickProblems was such a hilarious subreddit, i shit like IAmVerySmart and such. Its so easy to see thru often

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here’s a rocket ship 8=======D~~~

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second a few other comments, a lot of people conflating emoticons and emojis

  • emoticon: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
  • emoji: 🤷
  • emoticon: =>^.^<=
  • emoji: 🐱
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It’s understandable. Back in the old old days, these 😱 were often called emoticons. The reason was that the chat software that people used to automatically replaced ;-) by 😉. The menu was the same and the name of this menu was emoticon.

One of the most famous example of this is MSN Messenger.

People keep the habit to call them emoticons.

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In the old old days, emojis didn’t exist yet, until NTT DoCoMo created them for mobile phones. Emoticons predate them.

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I propose that we call the symbols in both emoticons and emoji “emos”.

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And we call emos, goths

I wonder what happened to all the emo girls

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no, no … emo and goth are different, goths have fashion sense …

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Very true. Also, I believe you forgot to escape the 2nd ^ symbol? I think it should look like this:

=>\^.\^&lt;=

=>^.^<=

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For me emoticons were something that started when all of the boomers came to Facebook. Floods and floods of useless emojis left and right. So now I feel weird using them, like I’m cheapening the platform while also acting like the people that ruined Facebook for me

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Are emojis considered emoticons? Call me old but I think this is an emoticon ;-) and this is an emoji 😉

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Agreed! Although the little image things on message boards like phpBB, ProBoards and Invision were also emoticons, even though they were basically early onset emojis

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Emoticons are old internet. Emojis are boomer, normie, and corpo friendly translations.

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Who is booing this man? He is completely correct

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Wait, who was using “old Internet” if not boomers?

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The nerds who made the tech.

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Most boomers I know still can’t use a mouse. Millennials and gen X fill most of the old Internet in my mind, but the original '91 Internet was a lot of tech focused boomers, but also was significantly Gen X. '95-'99 seemed to pick up more traction with my generation.

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I have a negative attitude to standard emoticons built into Android and iOS. They don’t look good, they’re too many.

I’m interested to know who uses emoticons depicting, for example, player rewind icons or rectangular shapes. Are there people who use these emoticons at least once a year?

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I make apps and I use them for prototyping buttons and stuff… So yeah, pretty often.

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Sounds intriguing. How does that look?

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Hmm… Then wouldn’t it be logical on the part of mobile OS developers to make the extended set of emoticons hidden by default and enabled through system settings? Or make an extended set of smileys as an app that can be installed through the app directory?

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My hypothesis: Lemmy has an older userbase, and in general older people feel less of a need to express their emotions. They’re busier discussing the topic than highlighting their attitude towards it.

Perhaps cultural reinforcement plays a role, too. As emoticons and emojis are less used, they feel more out of place, so people who’d use them elsewhere avoid them here.

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My 80 old father-in-law spams emoticons like he’s a 15 year old girl. Cringe-worthy and hillarious at the same time 😂

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I have stopped contacting family members because the constant emoji spam kills all desire to have a conversation with them. Feels like empty meaningless chatter.

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I only use emoticons to clarify an emotional message. On forums, I’m more interested in sharing and discussing ideas and opinions. Emoticon spam makes me sick with worthless cringe.

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I use emojis only because my phone suggests them at the end of sentences 🙃

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Personally I feel like if I need to use one, then I’ve done a poor job of writing.

I guess the other component is that I write a lot at work (I’m an engineering manager) and emoticons aren’t really appropriate for that kind of communication, so I’m not in the habit of using them.

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Such an emoji can be sent to a customer when all deadlines have passed.

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What kind of engineering manager isn’t using a dramatic shrug emoji or emoticon dozens of times every day?!

Don’t tell me your team has their shit together.

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I prefer to walk to their desks and make the expressions and gestures in person.

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😂 what!? I’ve worked with 11 engineering managers and they’ve all used emojis. You’re either not in software or you work for a bank/insurance.

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Not sure what to tell you, I’m the senior manager for software engineering in a company that makes rocket engines, solid rocket motors, and space electrical power systems. I’ve been working there for 38 years and emojis are pretty rare.

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I also work with space electrical power systems. That was an odd thing to see in the wild lol

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Exactly, not in software as in, not working for a software company.

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You’re just older. Has nothing to do with being an engineering manager.

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