This is just training yourself to have awful sex.
thats crazy in my book. jerking off is just getting self satisfaction, no connection, no sensuality, I mean you’re alone with a screen.
actual sex is amazing, and I’m not apeing what my phone screen shows, I’m really drawing it out and enjoying every little nuance. most of the porn I’ve watched has next to nothing to do with what decent sex is actually like
Even then it is better to build up arousal and excitement over time to reach higher peaks of ecstasy.
I dunno people keep saying porn makes you have weird expectations from sex but I’ve never once met a person that wants sex exactly like it is in porn.
I mean I’m sure it happens but I don’t think it’s this epidemic people are making it out to be.
Also don’t watch mainstream porn, go for the homemade stuff, it tends to be much more natural.
I know what I like so I’m going with that and I try my best to learn what my partner likes. It’s definitely not ever the spiderman, upside down bullshit with my foot on her head or whatever absolutely bat-shit crazy stuff they do as if it were normal lol
The first ~2 minutes are my favourite usually, I like the buildup a lot more than the actual porn most of the time
Completely agree! It drives me nuts when people skip. Drives me nuts in films/video’s, and drives me nuts in porn xD
When I find time to properly jerk it, that is when my child or wife aren’t home, it turns into an hours long edging session. I watch all the porn. Sometimes on several devices at once. I only get to do it occasionally, so why not go all out?
I hate that I relate to this, because honestly I feel like constantly skipping around to get to the good stuff can’t be good for us.
I really don’t think spending extra time sitting through half assed foreplay is going to do the human race any favors.
Might do an IRL sexual partner who enjoys foreplay a favour though. I dont know that reprogramming our brains to only react to hardcore scenes is doing ourselves a favour either.
You guys skip the story? You don’t want to know what kind of negotiation did they go through for the AC technician to accept a carnal payment from the hot MILF??? Or how is he going to explain the situation to his boss???
