Does anyone else find absolute silence difficult to deal with? In particular difficult to sleep in complete silence?
I think it started from a young age, being obsessed with music. Falling asleep with music.
As an adult, I still struggle with this and need some form of audio to drift off, be it music or something else.
More recently, I find stand-up comedy works best - itโs light-hearted and doesnโt require too much thought.
The only time I ever wouldโve preferred silence to some background noise was when I was at a scout camp along the banks of a river and the cacophony of frogs and crickets at night was super fucking loud. I barely slept the whole time I was there.
Other than that, I always put on some kind of ambient sounds or yoga music.
I must have earplugs and an eyemask to sleep. Always wanted pitch black and complete silence since I was a child.
Most people I know sleep with a fan on for this reason. Really common, yeah.
As a teen, I needed complete silence/darkness to sleep well. Then I met my now-wife, who needed a TV on to sleep well.
It took a while, but we eventually compromised on a fan for background noise.
I need a fan or white noise. Silence is just โeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeโ until I fall asleep.