I was born in 1989 and the math is HARD some days.

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how do you not know how old you are?

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I think it’s fairly common that people do some math in their head, specially when they get older than 30. Because it doesn’t matter really, you never need to tell anyone how old you are anymore. Well unless you use dating apps I guess, or date people… Nobody else asks your age.

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It’s been a hot minute since I’ve been on one of those apps but do they not just ask for your birthday and simply calculate your age…? Surely dating apps don’t require you to update your age manually every year right…

I guess if you’re not using an app then sure but you could just as well tell your birth year and if it’s close enough it’s probably fine. 🤷

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Yeah you are right about the apps probably. I haven’t ever used them but of course they have that built in. :)

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specially when they get older than 30

I’ve been doing the math since I turned 20

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Do you guys not remember how old you are year to year? Are you frequently calculating your age from your birth year instead of just adding 1 to it on your birthday?

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I’m guessing you are younger than 40.

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Hell I’m late 20s and it’s felt like this for a couple years now

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No, I’m mid-40’s, but I usually don’t forget my age. LOL. Although a couple of months ago someone asked how old I am and I said I was 10 years younger than I actually am. I didn’t realize what I had done until the next day.

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14 points

Bra I don’t know where I am let let alone how old I am

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Explains why your app is garbage.

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15 points

I frequently forget, because I rarely need my age in my daily life.

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I always thought it was nuts that people don’t remember, then I turned 30 and got married to someone who has a birthday less than a year before mine. Now I have two ages to remember (that are sometimes the same) and it takes a second for me to remember which is me when asked.

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Yes! Preach! This is me too. And in addition to being poor at maths I’m also not articulate so I just end up looking goofy when trying to figure out which age is me.

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It’s not about your age difference. It’s just hitting 30. My wife is 5 years younger than me and I couldn’t tell you how old either of us are

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a birthday less than a year before mine

This took me far too long to understand

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I find that the older I get, the less I discuss or think about my age throughout the year so it gets more difficult to remember. Also, my birthday is in January so it’s over pretty quickly and I don’t tend to think about it again while I’m busy thinking about my 4 kids birthdays that are coming up, instead!

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Got to tell you, friend… birthdays don’t matter that much after you’re a few decades down the road. Just another day closer to death, but maybe you get to go out to a nice restaurant.

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That’s exactly when I started having trouble remembering. 30 was a milestone, but now I have to think for a few seconds before answering.

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They do have to calculate it, it’s just the calculation is a bit easier for them.

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They could also process the year as a string and drop the first two characters.

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Only if you were born on January 1, otherwise you have to do a simple ±1 math

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1 point

But we’re not really calculating anything. I was 12 in 2012 and 8 in 2008. That’s much less a calculation and more so just observing numbers.

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You’re not living up to your username with an effort like that!

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My username is pure sarcasm unfortunately

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Math like that is really simple if you take it in easy chunks.

For example, to calc your age, just take the years from birthday to 2000 (11) and add it to the years since 2000 (23). 11 + 23 = 34.

Best part is the first calc never changes - so if you remember thst number it’s just like having a 2000 birthday. Just add 11.

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But I’m only 33! So part of the challenge is also remembering what day it is today lol

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It changes once a year, how stupid are some people that this is an issue?

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If you think about your age every day, you are the stupid one around here. Or maybe you are just 13 and it’s easy because you eagerly await the next year so you can be treated a little bit more like an adult so you count the days.

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Wait till you get a little older and start having a hard time remembering how old you are.

All becomes a blur at some point

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4 points

And what year it is!

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My exact age is almost never relevant in my day-to-day life, I pretty much only get reminded of it on my actual birthday and don’t think much about it for the rest of the year. So if somebody asks for my age, usually I’ll be off by a year or two and my wife will need to correct me, because for some reason she remembers.

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Damn. You sure told us. May this be your shining achievement of the day ✨

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