For me face is #1, but I also love a good chest, either hairy and/or muscular for a guy, and perky for a woman. What moves your meter?

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I have much more of an idea of my type in guys, muscular but not too muscular, the bodybuilder look turns me right off. I’m a sucker for a guy with a beard, and the guys I’ve dated have usually had longer hair.

With girls I’m still figuring things out, but one thing that really does it for me is a toned flat stomach and a cute little navel. I’ve also noticed that tattoos and piercings are a turn on, that whole punk vibe really does it for me!

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Omg yes, totally. Bodybuilders are a bit much for me too but if they’re like, a bit muscular and a bit thick? And bearded? Ooh yes, wow.

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What beard type? Are there some that you like/dislike very much?

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Like a full beard is crazy hot. Not a chinstrap beard, and not like full on wizard or anything

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Idk if it’s because I hit puberty when scene girls were a thing, but the punk/alt style is so fucking hot. Tattoos, piercings, dyed hair, wallet chains, etc 😍😍 Like Hayley Williams checks every single box I have

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Oh yeah, I’m on the same page with the dyed hair too, and you’re dead on about Hayley Williams, she’s gorgeous!

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Honestly kindness and a good personality are the biggest ones for me! A nice face is next on the list. I prefer women who look like they take care of themselves. Not like a supermodel or an athlete or anything, just that they look like they try to stay active. I wouldn’t say no to a nice rack but beyond that I’m pretty flexible about anything else lol

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Haha, good call! Can’t go wrong with a nice rack but a good personality is vital for sure. I can’t imagine being close to a jerk, regardless of gender.

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Unnecessary rudeness is probably the biggest turn off I can think of! You can tell a lot about a person just by how they treat restaurant staff lol

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I’m into guys, I like fit, anywhere from skinny to padded is fine but in shape. A nose kinda big for their face is often attractive, I like scars too.

A guy who gets off on being dominant in bed is a big turn-on, and being kind to waiters, cashiers, cleaning people, homeless people - treating everyone as an equal out in the real world I find very attractive.

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“You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

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Legs and ass. But if enthusiasm counts as a feature then definitely enthusiasm.

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This might sound a little mundane but someone who smiles with their eyes. Smiling with no joy behind it is so sad, and in terms of a partner it’s a turn off.

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