For me face is #1, but I also love a good chest, either hairy and/or muscular for a guy, and perky for a woman. What moves your meter?
I find it crazy hot and attractive, when person is comfortable with their body and sexuality. Looking at someone, who has fun expressing themselves freely and is enjoying themselves is so amazing!🩵
This might sound a little mundane but someone who smiles with their eyes. Smiling with no joy behind it is so sad, and in terms of a partner it’s a turn off.
I’m into guys, I like fit, anywhere from skinny to padded is fine but in shape. A nose kinda big for their face is often attractive, I like scars too.
A guy who gets off on being dominant in bed is a big turn-on, and being kind to waiters, cashiers, cleaning people, homeless people - treating everyone as an equal out in the real world I find very attractive.
I’m really attracted to femininity, so mostly but not exclusively women
Internally? Emotional intelligence, self-awareness, empathy, willingness to try things and be uncomfy at first
Physically? Glasses, big ass and thighs, huge breasts, dark complexion, natural hair, braids/twists
Not into slim/skinny/hard/flat figures or shapes at all.
I have to feel something for the person. That’s #1. And by that I mean talk and a connection built on shared interests and values. I’ll set aside personal preferences for how she looks if we hit it off as people. Honestly! How she looks matters less to me than how we click.
I’ve also been in vanilla relationships with women who knocked my socks off. I tend to like smart, self-assured, and driven. If I respect her, I’m gonna be interested. But I do like a kink dynamic. So that factors in too.
About faces and eyes, they’re the most emotionally expressive parts of our bodies. You can learn so much about a person just from their expression in the moment. More even than just what they say, because if what they say is at odds with their expression… there might be some deception going on. So yeah, love faces.
I used to chase hotties in my youth and after a few tumultuous relationships with women chosen for their looks over compatibility, I kinda learned a valuable lesson the hard way. 🤪