75 points

Probably about 5-10 minutes most of the time.

Your brain chatters to itself all the time, so if you stfu with the inner monologue and instead just try to eavesdrop on whatโ€™s going on in the background, that leads pretty much directly into a dream state.

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Thats called WILD!

Wake Induced Lucid Dreaming, hard to do but pretty cool if you can pull it off.

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Same, I have sleep tracks I listen to as well that usually start with a relax/disrupt your self-think exercise and then start describing a scene, like a train ride through pastures, this is not the same as leaving the TV or YouTube running, or an audiobook; itโ€™s intentionally boring and low engagement but it gives you something to focus on listening to so that you donโ€™t get caught up in your own thoughts, similar to the eavesdropping.

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3 points

May I ask for some suggestions from your collection?

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My local library gives me a free subscription to Headspace, so I use their Sleepcasts a lot, if it turns out that yours does too; Cat Marina 1&2 are good times, as is the Slow Train, Rainy Day Antiques, and Temple Rain.

Otherwise, I havenโ€™t tried them myself, but my sister is a big fan of https://www.sleepwithmepodcast.com

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Interesting. I basically do this to myself by counting two breaths and repeating that count while focusing on the darkness behind my eyelids. If I catch my mind wandering I go back to the simple count and staring at my eyelids again. Works pretty well most of the time as Iโ€™m not picturing anything nor am I allowing my inner monologue to run away on me.

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Depends how stressful I am. Sometimes itโ€™s less than 5 minutes, other times I struggle to obtain the eepy stage even after 3 hours.

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21 points

Personally, I always find you extremely stressful

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Surprised I havenโ€™t seen this response yet:

I say awake doing things until I am on the verge of passing out from being sleepy. If that means I only get 3 hours of sleep, then so be it.

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What if you donโ€™t feel that tired the whole night? Would you not sleep and go to work after that sleepless night?

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Yuuuup. Itโ€™s happened at least once in the last month.

Usually, though, I end up getting between 5-8 hours a night. (5hrs for the late nights, 8hrs for the next night when Iโ€™m so tired I could sleep in a warzone).

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Finally! Someone who does the same thing! People look at me like Iโ€™m crazy when I say I donโ€™t have a sleep schedule. I let my body do the scheduling. Like you, when it comes to staying up all night, I just tell myself Iโ€™ll get some bomb ass sleep tonight. Lol

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My wife is appalled that Iโ€™m asleep the second i hit the pillow. She could be in mid conversation with me in bed then sheโ€™ll just hear snoring.

Itโ€™s a gift and a curse.

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Damn dude, what about cuddles and stuff :o

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Iโ€™ll fall asleep during the cuddles as well lol

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~1h, 30min if Iโ€™m lucky. And it have to be absolutely quiet or the timer will reset ๐Ÿ™ƒ

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Iโ€™m sharing that pain with you.

On hot summer days, like now. I can find myself up for 2-3 hours due to the discomfort.

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