It’s just that they’ve adopted the label.

You could say you’re a fan of national socialism, but when you realize what people who refer to themselves as national socialists are, I don’t think you’ll want to use that label on yourself anymore.

There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin, but the term incel has more connotations than “involuntary celebrate.”

The first one. There are a few exceptions, but overwhelmingly, incels are dudes who act like they are owed sex and call women “females” and then are surprised when none want to sleep with them