I’m an 8 year data center network engineer who recently broke 100k for the first time. When I got asked my salary requirements I actually only asked for 90k as my highest previous salary was 80k with lots of travel, then I found out they gave me 100k because it was the minimum they could pay someone in my position. I’ve read before about people making crazy salary increases (150%-300%) and am wondering if I played it incorrectly and how I could play it in the future. I plan to stay with my company for the next few years and upskilling heavily and am eyeing a promotion in my first year as I’ve already delivered big projects by contributing very early. I’ve progressed from call center/help desk/engineer etc (no degree, just certs) so my progression has been pretty linear, are people who are seeing massive jumps in pay just overselling their competency and failing forward? Or are there other fields in IT like programming/etc that are more likely to have higher progression scales?

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When I went from being Head Chef in fine dining, at $34,000 a year, to being a General Manager at Taco Bell, for $36,000, but because of some law that was passed and went into effect in 2019, I got another $3000 per year raise, giving me a salary of $39,000 a year two months after I took the job.

I guess when I threw my back out a year later at 36, 20 years after I took my first Line Cook job, and started working for myself, growing flower, fostering dogs, and building computers would be my highest pay raise, since I either went from $39,000 a year, or really $0 a year, to making almost $100,000 my first year, and now I’m considering “retiring” at 43 years old because I have consistently made about $1,500,000 after taxes for the last couple years. I only need about $10,000,000 to retire and buy a house in the town I want to live in, that I currently live in.

I also self describe as “the luckiest bastard to ever live,” so I’m well aware that most people couldn’t do even half of what I have stumbled through. I’m being completely serious there. Any of the two plane crashes, or many of the 36 car wrecks I’ve been in should have killed me. That doesn’t include the mountain climbing accident that had me falling a full 125 feet onto a dry creekbed made of limestone. It also doesn’t include the many instances of me making, and testing, my own explosives. I shouldn’t have lived past puberty. I was playing around with things that no one should play around with, and somehow I’ve made it to 43, while actively antagonizing the US cops every chance I get. I “literally” told a cop at the age of 5, “I know where my mother is, she knows where I am. You can fuck off, thanks.” That didn’t go over well.

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That’s not including the fact that in 1998, The Undertaker threw Mankind off Hell In A Cell, and plummeted 16 ft through an announcer’s table

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Nah, I’m not u/shittymorph. He tells better stories than I do

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What the fuck are you doing that makes you 1.5M/yr?

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Seems like they started up a cannabis cultivation operation among other things.

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Yeah, that would probably do it.

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Building gaming computers, and growing flower.

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When someone asks what you were paid or what your salary expectations are, ask them what the budget is for the role. They have one. They will not want to tell you, and you shouldn’t tell them your expectations

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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT86J7mpN/

That was basically how the meeting went lol

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The NDA bit got me ngl

Truth is this is an antagonistic negotiation oftentimes. You want to be paid more, they want to pay you as little as possible. There’s unfortunately no playbook, just advice and experience.

FWIW if they were that evasive I’d just say “look I’m not going to name an initial number, I’d like you to name a range.” But I’m at a somewhat senior level so I have a different experience than others might

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even then, a position may not be for a certain level so they’re can be a fairly wide band of pay depending on how the interview goes.

i think most folks vastly overthink it. just ask for the money you want to make. either it’s in the ballpark or it’s not. all this “don’t say a number first” stuff is bullshit imo.

you definitely do want to know if your desired pay matches their range though. that’s very important.

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Why not be pushy? Why not be willing to walk away? Everyone’s situation differs but a server tech is not going to be lacking for work opportunities. If it’s calculated individually, you say “ok what would it be in my case?”

If they say “it depends on what you’re paid now” that’s a HUGE red flag and you should walk

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this is a conversation you usually have before the technical stuff. you’re making sure your ideal pay and their band is in sync.

being pushy early in the process is terrible advice.

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So, what happens then?

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It’s a negotiation. Unless you have a lot of knowledge about the industry you’re working in and what market salaries are, you’re at a disadvantage. You don’t have to say a number. They do - they’re offering you a job. If they refuse to offer you the job until you tell them your salary desire, they are trying to low ball you and you likely don’t want to work there.

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I have never been an interviewer or interviewee where you are not supposed to give a number.

Of course they try to low ball you. You counter act by giving a number that allows you to haggle. That is how negotiation works.

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They offer someone else the job

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Yeah, exactly. People upvoted this take that won’t work for 99.9999% of people lol

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Then you dodged a bullet

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A stare and patience contest begins.

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As a manager that contest would be ended instantly and I’d tell you to give me a number or get out

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I usually follow it up with a salary range and they end up matching the lower bound.

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A range gives you flexibility. I hope for the high end, sure, but I know they’ll go for the low end so I throw a range where I’d be happy with the low.

Since it’s a range, it’s easy to say No way I’d work for you for less than [low end].

If you give a fixed value they’ll low ball it and you’ll generally end up in.between theirs and yours, so you’ll have to aim high.

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140-150 is pretty average for a senior DevOps/AWS person. Coding and terrorism/AWS will pay more then networking in general.

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Did you maybe mean to say Terraform, or am I missing a key aspect of my job role?

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Lmaoooooo yes. Although some tf is terrorism.

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lmao I was thinking the same. Like damn I gotta start working some on some defense contractor stuff

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200% increase once I moved to the U. S from Sweden. I’m so happy to finally leave Europe

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That was unexpected (at least to me), like idk it feels like Sweden a good place to stay. Yeah the American salaries can be crazy… but after you count everything… idk I don’t think I personally would have done it.

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Good pay, probably

But overall, sweden has better safety nets if you lose your job. Healthcare that doesnt bankrupt you, education for your children that doesnt cost anything, etc

For a “working solo” dude i guess it matters less. But if you move your whole family…

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A good place to stay? I was renting a 2bd apt in Stockholm for 22000 SEK while making only 60k before taxes, after tax it was something like 38k. Yeah, sure, my kids daycare was subsidized and I didn’t have to worry about my health insurance, but what I was left with after taxes and rent was barely enough for us. Tbh I even was behind 1500 SEK copay on daycare a couple of times because of how little money I had. We had to eat mostly ätsnart items from ICA, I couldn’t afford to buy a bicycle, so I had to borrow one from a neighbor and fix it up, just to save some money on commuting because of expensive fares. The bicycle got stolen eventually. After one year our landlord booted us even though I asked them in advance to renew the contract, a friend of mine told me that this is because I would be eligible for första hand rent contract after living there for 2 years, so landlords never renew 2nd hand rent contracts. We couldn’t find another place to live afterwards and had to rent an Airbnb for a while. I moved to Cleveland OH afterwards. I make 2 times more now while paying only 1,600$ for a 3bd house. Our landlord is begging us to renew the contract. We can afford a car. We live normal life now.

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Swede here, soon to be in the same situation. American salaries are very tempting. If you dont mind me asking, what kind of work do you do? And was it hard to score a gig there? Any education? Im very curious.

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Welcome to Ohio!

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Yeah I can see why it would be better. I expected better conditions on Sweden. That said still personally I would have probably tried somewhere else in Europe before America, that again that’s just me.

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My first “real” job (I used to work at McD’s and Walmart, barely three months each) was 120k a year as a software engineer. I left that job for 200k within six months and here I happily stay

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