And even then, the medication is usually just turning on the tutorial so you can learn the controls, the difficulty doesn’t actually change.
CBT therapy is the tutorial. The drugs are aim assist. The game is still set to hard but at least now you have a fighting chance
I didnt find out the game was on hard mode until the last semester of my undergrad.
I found out at 29
After I dropped out of college twice of course
But hey, I can drive a forklift like a god at this point
Who needs a degree and debt when you can be forklift certified and make money?
neurodivergence is not a thing afaik.
we are different from others just as how everyone is different from each other (unless we have some exceptional adhd).
I have adhd, it’s hard. Many people who don’t have adhd also struggle from various issues (depression, anxiety, OCD).
very few people are “sorted” with playing life in easy mode.
these memes may make us feel special but I find it silly.
It’s not a thing in the sense of it being some innate part of the universe. But it’s very real in the sense of societal expectations. It’s all our natural differences, but Neurotypical is just the acceptable amount of difference that society is built around and caters to. If you fall outside of that you’re neurodivergent. Of course people aren’t sorted into playing life on easy mode; their level of difference simply naturally falls in that acceptable range. They don’t have to think about it like someone else might because it just comes naturally to them. It’s considered a disability because everyone is expected to operate inside of that acceptable range and if you can’t then you’re broken according to society.
the people who fall outside of the “normal” - those who cannot go about their life (not just meet societal expectations) without medication are very rare (imho).
rest of us have various issues - one of them is ADHD.
neurodivergence has no meaning - if you care about people and spend time learning about them you will see that everyone is peculiar and have issues just like you (making them also neurodivergent).
it’s bit “not like other girls” .
it’s bit “not like other girls” .
it really isn’t, but what you’re doing is a lot “I don’t see colour”.
Ignoring the fact that some of us struggle more than others because society wasn’t designed for those with brains and/or bodies like ours doesn’t just magically make those struggles go away, it just makes you more comfortable and gives you an excuse to dismiss others’ difficulties.
Saying “everyone is a little neurodiverse” is saying no one is, and saying no one is, is ableism.
these memes may make us feel special but I find it silly.
The internet over-romanticization of (not only) ADHD has to stop. It is stupid and I believe causes more harm than good.
I have a hard time with this sentiment. Without stupid ADHD memes starting to gain traction a few years ago, I’d probably either be dead via suicide or struggling badly with my “Anxiety that doesn’t respond to treatment” and a nice dose of depression as well. Before the memes my perception of ADHD was waaaaaaaay off, I dumped hours into research because some memes hit too close to home (possibly hyperfocusing funny enough lol) and I think it’s managed to have this more accurate public image because of internet bullshittery.
But as always, the internet takes “too much of a good thing” to it’s extremes and the more and more I see people discussing it, the more I also see shit that just isn’t true or is an ADHDer saying “teehee how quirky” while using a weird description of everyone’s everyday behavior. We’ve already seen a lot of that with autism imo.
Sure. I can’t disagree with you. Of course I understand it has helped people and this is valueable. What I’m talking about is an over-romanticization of some aspects especially for example the “hyperfocus”, like come on people, you’re not super heroes because you managed once per month to finally focus on something. However this creates a sense of belonging somewhere which can be helpful, but also intersting to question on what base is this made at
Saving the meds for the boss fight
I don’t like her.
