157 points

I paid for my teaching degree by working as a prostitute. Prostitutes aren’t extra horny degenerates or something, they’re just folks trying to survive. I’d probably be a better teacher if I could still do it, because I could cut back the hours at my second job 🤷‍♂️

Seems like we hold teachers to higher standards than CEOs and politicians, for less money than a Walmart GM makes…

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More like hold women to stricter standards than men.

Men can and are celebrated for being absolute sluts. Hell, its actively encouraged in most spaces.

Woman sleeps with more than 2 people and an inordinate amount of people will look down upon her and say all kinds of horrific things.

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18 points

Thank you for your service!

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33 points

It’s almost like we should be paying you more… But… Nahhh, MuH tAxEs!!! Wahhhh!

Sorry we all collectively suck so much :(

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I guess I’m old school, but I really don’t want my daughter looking up to a prostitute or an OnlyFans woman as a role model.

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These days you’re not allowed to point out that sex work and workers are generally not icons of moral clarity or responsibility.

Sorry m8 your bad.

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You’re not. The majority of people feel that way, but it’s mostly quietly though since saying otherwise publicly would be construed as being ‘sexist/misogynistic/puritan/etc/etc’.

Only a tiny fraction of society actively engages in social media. Remember that.

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Then you are indeed old school, because sex positivity is awesome. We have all seen dicks before and we have all seen vaginas before, people use these to make sex. We know that people close to us have had sex because we exist, everyone’s dad has fucked everyone’s mom. Get over it

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166 points

Sex work is work. This woman did nothing wrong. Fuck the puritans who fired her.

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Regardless of the fact that there’s no way many of her students will be mature enough to handle this information without being disruptive, there’s a difference between supporting life decisions and accepting them.

Like the difference between fatphobia and supporting healthy lifestyles, right? One is cruelty, the other is not supporting bad habits.

Same with prostitution, it’s one thing to not oppress sex workers, it’s another to tell kids to become sex workers. Hopefully she’s not doing that but is normalizing the profession really what you want around teenagers?

No parent wants to find out their kid started turning tricks because Ms Smith seemed cool.

Especially when her “Ways to Spot A Dangerous John” course wasn’t approved by the principal.

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70 points

Active shooter drills? Super chill.

Woman had sex? Mind blown and values changed forever!

I wish you could see how you sound.

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Some people view sex as something intrinsically beyond the purely transactional, and for those people it’s immoral to treat sexual intercourse as a commodity. I’m somewhat undecided, but it does seem a bit like the final frontier of neoliberalism.

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22 points

You’re acting like she introduced herself to her students as a former prostitute. The kids never would have known if these asshole adults didn’t dig into her past like it mattered.

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It is massively naive to think that zero of the people who are students right now will ever do sex work at some point in the future. Some of them definitely will. Even if you don’t agree that sex work is valid and honorable work (which you clearly don’t agree with) there’s no way to stop people from doing it despite how vilified or illegal it is in any society.

Given that reality, a course teaching people how to avoid the dangerous elements of a job that some of those people will eventually do, sounds like a great course. Having a sex worker who knows WTF she’s talking about teach it? That’s fucking amazing.

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85 points

Why would you assume she was “promoting sex work” instead just teaching kids “normal” sex ed? That’s a very strong assumption, and the article says nothing about that. Do you have an alternative information source that says otherwise?

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Her existence as a teacher is tacit approval of her side gig by the school. Her existence in the classroom promotes it as a viable career.

There’s always a fine line to tread by institutions in charge of minors between trusting your kids to be mature enough to handle things like this and knowing how vulnerable they are to making poorly thought out decisions.

I wouldn’t want a prostitute teaching classes on sex ed, and I wouldn’t want a drug dealer teaching chemistry, and just to be clear, I use drugs and have used prostitutes.

I just didn’t do it and won’t support it around people whose brains are literally unfinished.

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Especially when her “Ways to Spot A Dangerous John” course wasn’t approved by the principal.

It’s always a sign that you have a great argument when you straight up make up facts.

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3 points

Seriously. This is a human being we’re talking about, who’s now lost her livelihood, and will possibly need to resort to prostitution again to make a living because of it.

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Sex work is work.

Do you believe that every sort of work in the world should be 100% legal? All of it?

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2 points

Your logical fallacy is both juvenile and tired.

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In what way?

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6 points

That’s not how logic or reasoning works. They said sex work is work, they said literally nothing else about any other kind of work.

Come on dude, that’s like the most boring fallacy ever.

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What’s the point of saying sex work is work, then? Obviously it is, but just saying something is work doesn’t somehow validate it.

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14 points

Obviously she should have joined the military and shot brown kids instead.

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1 point

The military is a cancer. My country glorifies what should be an absolute last resort as something to be proud of.

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16 points

Only when they’re consenting adults doing no harm to anyone.

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Well yes, that’s a different issue. It should be legalized and regulated as currently there are almost no legal protections for workers.

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38 points

Fuck the puritans who fired her.

Ironically, there’s a chance that she may have been doing just that.

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16 points

My money’s on a petulant john outing her after recognizing her from their kids school.

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15 points

You joke, but I knew a woman who danced at a strip club to get extra money for herself and school supplies who got fired after a student’s dad saw her dancing

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The fact that prostitition is illegal over there still baffles me. It’s just a job and if anyone knows about safe sex it’s someone who works a profession tied to it. If i wanted to learn about some hobby i’m sure i could learn more from a professional than some random guy.

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I think to just put it on the level of any other basic profession is naive, and I think you know that. I’m on board, but to turn a blind eye to human trafficking is foolish. And to suggest legalizing prostitution would all of a sudden eliminate human trafficking is just as foolish.

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I’m so sick of people bringing up trafficking whenever prostitution is mentioned. I just don’t understand it. What do cars have to do with any of this?

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But what’s it got to do with the youth in Asia?

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2 points

Vroom, vroom

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5 points

Oooooo sex scary

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3 points

My god please put a spoiler tag on that word, I’m in the hospital recovering from the worst heart attack the doctors have ever seen! Scared the heebie jeebies right out of me.

Now excuse me while I look over my $200k hospital bill, might have to sell some organs for this one.

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Globally there’s way mor illegal trafficking in construction than in prostitution. So should wo do something there too?

And yes, legalizing will not eliminate human trafficking, but it would put the blame (and criminalization) away from victims.

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You’re missing the important point which is that when women sell their bodies it’s icky. Human trafficking only matters if it’s for icky reasons.

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8 points

Oh, look… the puritan sex hater brigade has shown up.

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gig*

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I’m sure the misogynist gym teacher with the emotional aptitude of a 15 year old who’s partner has to drink themselves ready for the same missionary sex they’ve had for the past decade is a great teacher of sex-ed.

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Yeah, or if you’re in [MY LOCATION] the gym teacher who decides to show his junk to his [SPORTSBALL TEAM] and gets nominated to our hall of fame….

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Must have been quite some [JUNK].

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2 points

Or the US Senate

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we were like 14 years old when dude said “well, today’s the day”. then he took a banana out of one drawer of his desk, and a condom out of another drawer. like they had always been there. like they belonged there. like the box his desk came in said “sturdy construction, faux wood grain paneling, and advanced banana and condom storage solutions.” he then took ten minutes to explain to us that condoms don’t work, and we shouldn’t trust them, and that only by not fucking will we be safe from wrath, rack and ruin. He then tried to put the condom on the banana, struggled with it being upside down for a bit, and BROKE THE FUCKING BANANA.

This was the state of sex ed in the wilds of Pennsylvania circa 2000

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2 points

Sounds like abstinence would certainly be best for him and his penis.

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7 points

“Perfect, all he needs to teach is abstinence anyway” -evangelicals

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I mean, just my personal opinion, but abstinence does need to be taught as a co-curriculum with a large portion of relationship education (particularly what a good relationship is/has, and what a bad relationship looks like and how to leave it), and stoicism and some other philosophies that demonstrate how forgoing pleasure (for some things, for periods of time) can lead to better outcomes. I don’t want my kid thinking they need to refrain from sex because it’s somehow immoral, but I also don’t want them to jump into every ‘relationship’ that comes their way in school and start having sex with someone who is just using them for their genitals.

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Christianity, racism and corruption. Politicians love to target poor people, and prostitution is a job that often draws in the desperate. Conveniently, POC make up a large percentage of the impoverished population.

Sex trafficking is out of control in the US, yet it’s never talked about by politicians. Even with Epstein, the focus was on how terrible he and his accomplices were, not on the actual problem. Not the thousands of other women and girls who are still being trafficked in the US. Legalizing prostitution is pretty much the only answer.

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I went to a private elementary school. We had a lady from Planned Parenthood come in to teach us sex ed to a remarkably sophisticated way for an elementary schooler. I don’t remember a lot, but I do remember her demonstrating how to put a condom on using a clear plastic phallus.

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What’s that got to do with this article?

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It brought up that memory.

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What’s your random memory got to do with this article?

It’s not relevant and it’s not adding anything to this conversation.

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Interesting.

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