I love how this is almost laid out like a chart. Each row is a different category of things to work on as somebody with ADHD. The left half is what to try to do and the right half is what not to do. All we can do is keep trying.
And building yourself back out of depression once treatment starts isn’t an overnight thing
I was diagnosed like 3 months ago at 29
It’s a night and day difference but it’s still a bit rough at times
But I’m working on it and now that I’m able to stay focused on a task it’s easier than before, but it’s not easy
If you don’t mind me asking, as a stranger, did you start meds? My partner was recently diagnosed at 28, and started meds, but I’m not sure how well they’re working.
I did start meds but I’ve noticed that the key factor in how well they work is how I spend the first hour of my day.
If I open YouTube or social media the day is a wash.
If I start the day making breakfast listening to music with the idea of doing things that day, it goes great.
One thing that really helps me go with the second option is having a tab already open from the day before that has a playlist I can just start. And it’s the only one open.
I was diagnosed with Inattentive ADHD so my experience may be different than someone diagnosed with Hyperactive ADHD.
Also be sure that they’re doing more than just meds, education about various ways of managing ADHD in conjunction with meds will lead to far better outcomes than those things separately.
Or maybe the meds don’t work for them and they need to try something different. One of my friends tried 3 different meds before they landed on one that worked.
And after 40+ years of suffering in get diagnosed, and medicated, and now all the meds are backordered… Back to my old ways
Do I have untreated ADHD? I hate this.
I’ve had a feeling that I might have it for a while but idk what to do. It seems like there’s probably not a sureshot way to know I have it? And if I don’t, it’ll always feel like an excuse to other people.
Talk to your doctor and/or psychiatrist and they can’t test and diagnose. Even being diagnosed, I still often feel like I’m just making excuses when something stems from my ADHD, but it’s important to remember that it’s not fair to yourself to downplay your own challenges. Acknowledging the challenges you face, and their affects on your life is not making excuses. It’s being honest with yourself about what you experience.
Also I have one question. I’ve always done reasonably well on exams by cramming on the last day (more like last night) when the pressure is extreme. That doesn’t take away from the fact that I could have it right? Like I’m good at cramming something under pressure and vomiting it out the next day, but am also awful at something that would require regular periodic studying.
This is literally the diagnostic criteria: https://add.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/adhd-questionnaire-ASRS111.pdf
Have a go and see if the questions resonate
You are voluntarily here and finding common ground with an ADHD meme. If you’ve felt like there’s something different about you and have been waiting for a Sign, this is it.
Just keep an open mind, since a lot of different things can cause ADHD like symptoms. “I actually don’t have ADHD” is also important information, and a good psychiatrist or therapist can help guide you to wherever the truth lies.
Wait based on this list I am depressed, any more symptoms?
If you think you might be depressed, it’s best to look for a psychiatrist who can make an assessment. I’m providing this info for educational purposes only, please don’t diagnose yourself.
To be officially diagnosed with depression, you’d need to have at least five of the following symptoms for at least 2 weeks, and at least one of the boldened symptoms needs to be present:
- Depressed mood
- Loss of interest/pleasure in almost all activities
- Significant weight loss or gain without dieting or significant decreases or increases in appetite.
- Sleeping too much or too little nearly every day.
- Moving too much or too little nearly every day in a way that’s noticeable to other people.
- Feeling fatigued and devoid of energy nearly every day.
- Feeling worthless or inappropriately guilty nearly every day.
- Having brain fog and indecisiveness.
- And, finally, having thoughts of suicide.
More goes into the diagnosis (like for example ruling out medical conditions and substance use), so once again, please don’t just diagnose yourself based on this list.
