I like it. I finger myself sometimes. The last time I tried it with my previous partner, I gave her a pair of thick rubber kitchen gloves so her manicured nails wouldn’t be a hygiene issue. She used oil-based lube and stuck a couple fingers in. It didn’t feel great, but I would have preferred she continue rather than stopping at the slightest sign of discomfort. Pain and nonconsent are my kinks, but I’ve accepted that few people are true sadists.
I haven’t had as many male partners, nor have my male relationships lasted as long. It’s not that I don’t like guys, but my type is more effeminate and cute while still dominant. Very, very few people like that in the world.
No. Things in my anus just make me think I’m doing a shit, which is not a sexy headspace to be in for me.
Yes with proper lubrication. Just playing around with the finger tip is amazing! A plug can also be great. Past a few inches you’re nearing “train for it” territory and it may start to be uncomfortable or painful. Everyone needs to learn their body and its limits ofc.
Yes.