147 points

I only use it because there’s no way I could convince my friends and family to move to anything else.

There’s no point in switching to another app if I then literally couldn’t communicate with the people I need to through it.

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I’ve been using Beeper a month or two. They had a long waiting list, and initially it was subscription only, but they are working on smashing through the waiting list and have changed to a freemium model where you get it for free and (eventually) they will have extra features for subscribers.

Basically, it’s one chat app that connects to lots of different chat services.

If you’re technical, the app is a fork of Element, and the service uses matrix bridges to connect to different chat services, but it’s all presented in a (somewhat) polished way. The wait list is because they are still struggling with scaling and quirks but if you’re on Lemmy you’re probably already well familiar with putting up with this.

It covers heaps of chat networks. Whatsapp, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Signal, Telegram, and more. It also will let you SMS (unlike Signal 😬).

You can also connect to Matrix rooms but you don’t seem to be able to connect to an existing Matrix account (it uses a Beeper matrix account to connect).

It doesn’t do video/audio calls so they recommend you leave the original app installed and disable message notifications (but leave on call notifications) if you use this.

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15 points

app is closed source :/

Looks cool though

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Yep. But if you’re keen on this stuff, you can self host matrix and the bridges and do it yourself. Their bridges are open source, just not their apps whose features are their business model.

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6 points

I remember I used to have Pidgin, but facebook closed the messenger API (I think, this was a while ago) How does this work?

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I’m afraid I don’t know the details 🙁

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For pidgin I think you can host your own xmpp server?

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4 points

A modern-day Trillian.

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That’s interesting!

I’m just not sure the “security” of WhatsApp is preserved in that case but it’s certainly better than not being able to talk to certain people at all.

Also I think these kind of meta chat apps have been tried before and it usually doesn’t end very well so I’m not sure I would be super optimistic.

Any of the chat provider can break their link to beeper and since they probably don’t really care about it it shouldn’t very reliable.

But a cool find nonetheless!

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Well, that’s super neat and very useful for my circumstances. I’m moving outside of the US soon to a place where WhatsApp is dominant, but I still want to use SMS/MMS with family and friends in the US since I doubt they’ll make the switch. I’ve been using WhatsApp for about a year now while coordinating stuff for my soon-to-be home and I’ve come to the conclusion that WhatsApp is complete garbage.

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Nice. Looking into this one. Although in reality I use about 95% whatsapp just because everyone else does. Wish we could all just switch to Signal or even Telegram but nah… Whatsapp is so engrained everywhere that it is not going to go away anytime soon.

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Signal kinda put themselves out of the messaging app battle when they dropped SMS support

I totally get why they did it, but I think a lot of people stopped using it for this reason, unfortunately

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I don’t really want to start a debate on the Signal SMS dropout but …

They could have put a big red warning and a disclaimer you have to read once for the unsecured SMS. It would have been fine.

Yes, you would have to maintain that but I think it would definitely have been worth it considering how much reach they lost dropping this feature.

I stopped using Signal when they did, and that’s one less tech user advertising their secure app.

It’s a shame because I think this will slowly kill the project.

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2 points

I don’t think anyone uses or cares about SMS where I live

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7 points

same here. Heck, even Nextcloud Talk is more sophisticated than frickin’ WhatsApp these days…

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2 points

Same but replace WhatsApp with messenger and iMessage.

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I literally installed Telegram/Signal on my families devices, synced their contacts with the app, and said “if you want timely responses, message me here”

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I think this could help you.

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Interesting I’ll look into it thanks

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127 points

Wait until you hear how many people use facebook messenger.

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💀

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Yeah, that’s the real “internet explorer of messaging services”. Absolutely sucks to use it (doesn’t even.deliver messages to me half the time), but 90% insist on it for chat groupa and such.

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2 points

Basically all of Scandinavia

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I do have like 2 people I only talk to once or twice a year that I don’t have any other known contact for. But I only use it very rarely because of that. If I ever stop talking to them, I’ll finally delete the whole account.

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I’ll take facebook messenger over whatsapp any day. At least it works on PC and has third party clients

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110 points

Signal is the best.

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The thing it’s missing the most is better multi device support and an updated desktop client.

For me, I think Matrix is more complete (specially since it backs-up your chats and media encrypted). The only thing it’s lacking (at least Element specific) is encrypted chat search support on mobile.

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17 points

What matrix is missing is anyone that I know. Ultimately that is way more important than features in a messaging client.

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In my personal experience, everyone who has an account with Signal also has with Matrix. The main issue for me is who has an account at all.

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It has bridges for most messaging services so you could use a matrix frontend for most of your messaging needs without having people on matrix so long as the server admin has set up those extensions

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7 points

Signal client looks optimized on MacOS and Linux i don’t use Windows so not sure what’s going on there

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6 points

+1 for linux cluent, absolutely no complaints

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6 points

I use it on windows. The client is totally fine for the most part.

Though for some reason it regularly screws up the device-connection, forcing me to reconnect the device, loosing access to every old message. Seems to be a rare bug though, as my family also uses the windows client and theirs never has this problem (out of 8 device 1 has this problem)

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I use it for linux. Recently there was a bug where if you had a chat opened, it would pin one core to 100% usage. It also lacks feature parity with the mobile client (ex: gif search and send).

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Yeah, it sucks that if I were using Signal only on my phone and eventually decide to start using it on desktop, it doesn’t sync any conversation history, resulting in the desktop client showing nothing from before you set it up. It should have older devices send history to new ones. If you’re permanently switching devices, are you losing that history for good?

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5 points

Nope, you can backup the chats and import them when installing Signal on the new device

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3 points

There’s no way that we can have a mainstream alternative to imessage if we keep declaring a new app or protocol the new best one every two years.

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iMessage can’t be “the mainstream” app by locking out most of the world tho. Plus it is definitely the ugliest thing Apple has ever made in its lifetime that I know of.

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2 points

All Google needs to do is make a public RCS API. Then we will have all the important features iMessage has on Android via regular texting. I have no fucking clue why they are making RCS exclusive to their messaging app.

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I think have settled into what they know.

I think that iMessage is only prevelant in North America. Here in Europe (Portugal, at least), everyone uses Whatsapp.

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Hopefully the new MLS for app interoperability will ease the adoption of any newer app

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3 points

Still waiting for the ability to log in one two phones, and ideally also uncompressed photo/file sending

But yea Signal is great

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2 points

SimpleX or Matrix are way better

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4 points

Session is good too but is only used by IT people… Signal is used by lawyers and many more

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2 points

SimpleX >>>> Matrix

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1 point

I don’t think it’s really a chat app. Isn’t it just a text replacement? Or does it just use that number as your ID to use it? I have it, but only ever used it with one guy.

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It has lots of nice features over SMS: read/typing notifications, image/video support, proper groups, message expiration. I think that makes it a chat app

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I have all those features with Google Messages (as long as I’m not talking to an iPhone user).

Signal’s UI has improved a lot though. Still I only know one person that uses it.

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I was implying mms as well. Didn’t know about the other additions. I only knew one person with it, and we haven’t spoken in years.

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71 points

I wish people would stop using the Crowder meme template.

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Same. We even have a nice alternative. https://postimg.cc/rzvDYFXW

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From now on, I’ll adhere to the “Calvin: Change my mind” meme format. Thank you for your input. 🫡

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4 points

Oh shit that is him! I never even noticed before. Major ick.

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2 points

Why?

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Because he’s an asshole. A grifting asshole to be specific.

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6 points

I feel like I would never get along with anyone who has an attitude of “I believe X. Change my mind.” I can’t imagine anyone starting a conversation that way is not an asshole.

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Oh i get it now. The person in the photo is an asshole in real life. It only took me a day of wondering why would someone be an asshole for not liking a meme template 😅

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2 points

How come?

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He’s a right wing piece of shit who constantly says and does the most unhinged shit. Don’t really follow him, but from the top of my head, he mocked George Floyd’s death, he mocks trans people on a regular basis…

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Eh, whatsapp isn’t ideal and its owner is one of the big devils of today, but it’s the only way to send and receive instant messages among billions of people. I despise it, but it’s the only way I can contact people. Needless to say, they don’t give a single flying fuck about privacy.

Whatsapp outages make people migrate to Telegram for 1-2 days at most, nobody ends up staying there. Signal? I’ve only ever met three other people in RL who have even heard of it, and I work in IT.

A more apt comparison would be to languages. Whatsapp is english: clunky, weird, full of nonsense, but it’s what “everyone talks”. Signal would probably be lojban or esperanto.

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12 points

This is SMS in the US. No one uses WhatsApp, telegram or matrix. Every iphone user uses imessage and so we are stuck with SMS.

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Aside from needing a phone, I really don’t see the issue with SMS. For sending quick messages to people directly, is there really a better tool? You (most likely) already have a phone plan, you already have a phone, and your phone is always on you. Everyone you’re trying to contact is in the same boat, even people who are technically illiterate. All phones with phone plans support SMS, unless there’s weird plans I don’t know about.

When it comes to more complex needs (group management, e2e encryption, etc) other services are better of course. I don’t use SMS to text my group of friends, it’s really not well suited for the job.

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Aside from needing a phone

That is a huge one for me. Yes, I have a phone. But I spend most of my waking time in front of a desktop or laptop. With Whatsapp, Telegram or Signal I can read and write messages from the computer, copy/paste text to the documents I am writing, and send and download files. SMS are more limited.

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SMS does not have any encryption at all.

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I use SMS for work. It’s the one we all know what message we send through will present the same on the other side regardless of phone. A big downside is that it’s limited to the phone. Messenger and WhatsApp can be read on laptops.

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SMS is hard to have on multiple devices and it is hell of a work to become SMS provider. Internet based messaging is better in a every single way.

Even the network range is now not an advantage, as 3G is shutting down in many regions.

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As a Signal user and an Esperantist I agree. They both require a somewhat curious mind for you to bump into them in the first place. Unless you have that friend/relative who always recommends weird stuff for you (to ignore).

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Yeah, but I disagree. Signal doesn’t require that by design, it’s just as easy to use as WhatsApp (unlike something like Matrix or Lemmy). It’s just as easy to switch and has a better privacy. And while I even don’t use it much, I actually know quite some people on it (majority of which is non-techy).

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Most (non-techy) people haven’t heard from it and don’t bother searching for alternatives since WA is ubiquitous.

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Why would it even be weird or anything? I only use Signal and its pretty much the same as whatsapp on the outside…just in blue. The only reason people dont use it is because “eVerYonE hAs WhAtsApP” and they dont bother. 20 useless crap apps but 2 messengers is too much

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as another signal user and esperantist, i unfortunately agree as well. but it doesnt have to be like this

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Signal was fantastic until they stupidly killed SMS integration.

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I’m not sure I have all of them, but I regularly use (privately)

  • encrypted email
  • unencrypted email
  • text
  • Meta Facebook Messanger
  • Meta Instagram messages
  • Meta WhatsApp
  • Signal
  • Telegram
  • Microsoft Teams (yes, even privately)

I’m tired boss.

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Look into Beeper! It just got RCS support in its last update. Not sure if they plan on supporting Teams though.

If you’re tech savvy though, look into setting up your own Matrix server for a Teams bridge.

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Beeper looks amazing but is waiting list only.

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I have never used Whatsapp nor does anyone I know.

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11 points

Murican, I suppose.

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It’s mostly not used in the US afaik. I’ve seen it in a lot of places in Europe and the middle east

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According to Statista, 41% of 'muricans use it, which is a rather low number. Meanwhile, Brazil is the whatsapp country, in terms of percentage. In total numbers, that’d be India, as it’s the most populous country in the world.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1311229/whatsapp-usage-messaging-app-users-by-country/

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